The holiday season can be a particularly interesting time to think about boundaries. December often brings increased social expectations and obligations—all of which can stretch, blur, or challenge the boundaries we usually rely on. Boundaries can feel like a slippery concept: something we’re constantly told to uphold, understand, and recognise when crossed. Yet many of...
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Welcome to the Singles Rope Jam, a space for you to find new rope friends and tying partners (or rekindle old ropelationships). Ceci will guide you through a collective warm up, starting with a moment of grounding self-tying and then finding a partner or a small group to tie with. Afterwards you will have plenty...
What if relationships didn’t have to follow a script? Relationship anarchy invites us to question the norms we’ve inherited about love, intimacy, commitment, and hierarchy. Instead of placing relationships into predefined categories, it asks: what feels true, consensual, and meaningful for you? This discussion-based workshop offers a welcoming space to explore these ideas together. Through...
Step into a warm, welcoming space designed to help you slow down and tend to the relationships that matter most. What I Love About Us is an in-person “relationship spa” where partners and friends can refresh connection, appreciation, and understanding. Through gentle, guided activities, reflective prompts, and sweet exercises, participants will explore what’s working well,...
So you want to fly? This workshop teaches suspension basics: upline management, attachment, troubleshooting, and consent communication. Explore partials, experiment with positions, and learn what both tops and bottoms need to feel supported and safe in the air. Perfect if you have found your favorite harnesses in the Structures classes. We Will Explore: Attaching suspension...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope Structures: Lower Body Ties
Futomomos, mermaids, and basket ties, oh my! Learn to safely and securely tie lower bodies with structure. Focus includes finding and adapting ties for different bodies and levels of flexibility. Tie yourself or with a partner in this technical class. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We explore specific...
Welcome back to Rope for Nerds — the workshop series for rope brains who want to really understand what’s going on under the hood. Gamified play & session cheat codes is your quest log for leveling up rope scenes with creativity, communication, and a bit of geeky strategy. Whether you're a rope top, bottom, or...
While a lot of thought and energy and practice and so on and so forth can be put into tying, we are also all facing challenges in our everyday lives that are less and less bearable. Ropes can also be used to forget about all that shit out there, all the fascism, the economy, the...
Queer Rope Jam
It's queer rope jam time, babes! Once in a while you gotta do ropey stuff amongst other queers and just enjoy yourself. No posing, no being cool or extra good at doing ropey things needed. Come as you are, exhale and enjoy yourselves. What is a rope jam? Rope jams is an open space format....
Befriending Jealousy
Jealousy is a mystery. Usually we don’t talk about it and even less often we try to decode the complex structure and put it down from its terrifying throne. In the most guidebooks it is being characterized as a negative and evil „feeling“. As a result most people feel bad and get the feeling that...
Kink Rituals
Winter Solstice will soon be upon us. How would you like to mark this turning point in the year? Caritia invites participants into an intentional, ritual-based space for grounding, reflection, manifestation, and energy play. Together, we’ll explore how ritual can help us honour where we are, release what no longer serves us, and consciously invite...













