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DEC

Boundaries and Negotiations – Holiday Edition

7:00 pm – 9:30 pm · LGBTQIA+ & Friends
IN-HOUSE

Quick Info

When:
10. December 2026, 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Where:
KARA
Format:
workshop
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+ & Friends
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English
What to know:
No previous knowledge required.
Questions:
Message us via info@karada-house.de

Tickets

Tickets

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Boundaries and Negotiations – Holiday Edition (regular)
35,00 €
20 available
Boundaries and Negotiations – Holiday Edition (low income)
30,00 €
20 available
Boundaries and Negotiations – Holiday Edition (hardship)
25,00 €
2 available

If our reduced tickets (low income & hardship) are sold out or still too expensive, write to info@karada-house.de. No one's left behind.

The holiday season can be a particularly interesting time to think about boundaries. December often brings increased social expectations and obligations—all of which can stretch, blur, or challenge the boundaries we usually rely on.

Boundaries can feel like a slippery concept: something we’re constantly told to uphold, understand, and recognise when crossed. Yet many of us have never had the opportunity to explore what a boundary actually means to us, where our boundaries come from, or how they have been shaped by our experiences.

How did you come to understand boundaries in your life? What have your culture, family, community, relationships, laws, and personal experiences taught you about saying yes, saying no, asking for what you need, and responding when someone else says no?

Caritia invites participants into a practical and reflective space to explore boundaries and negotiation through a holiday-season lens. Together, we’ll look at the difference between boundaries, preferences, needs, limits, and agreements, and how we can communicate them with greater clarity and confidence.

Rather than treating boundaries as fixed rules, we’ll explore them as something we can notice, communicate, negotiate, and revisit as our circumstances and capacity change.

What we will offer

  • Exploring our boundary stories — Reflecting on how we learned what boundaries are and what has shaped our understanding of them
  • Boundaries, limits & preferences — Unpacking the differences and why they matter when we negotiate
  • The holiday pressure cooker — Exploring festive situations where boundaries can become complicated or harder to communicate
  • Negotiation in practice — Finding language for making requests, expressing limits, checking in, and responding to changing needs
  • Capacity & context — Considering how energy, stress, relationships, and social expectations affect what we are able and willing to do
  • When boundaries change — Practising how to communicate when our capacity, desires, or boundaries shift
  • Repair & renegotiation — Exploring what we can do when communication goes wrong, expectations change, or a boundary is crossed
  • Creating our own festive toolkit — Leaving with practical ideas and language to support clearer, more intentional negotiations throughout the season

An opportunity to move beyond the idea that boundaries are simply about saying no, and explore how they can help us create more satisfying, respectful, connected, and consensual experiences.

Facilitator

Caritia (no pronouns)

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thrivi...

Learn More

http://caritia.de

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