Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Find Your Kinks
The world of kink is vast and full of possibility—let’s explore it together. In this curiosity-led workshop, participants are invited to discover what sparks their interest when it comes to desire, play, and intimacy. Through guided reflection and discussion, we’ll explore different ways people express, feel, and share kink, and begin to understand what resonates...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope in the Air: Side Suspension
Explore your first full suspensions — side-on! We will use your choice of upper body harness with a basket tie to practice partial and full side suspensions. We will play with body angles and load distribution to understand our harnesses and partners better. The suspensions are done starting from the ground. We’re exploring low suspensions...
BIPOC Utopias: Ace & Aro
This month, we will offer space to discuss what it is to be Ace and/or Aro, as a BIPOC individual. Covering what these words/terms mean and diving into how we can support ourselves and others from a play context. This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play...
Radical Inclusion
The world can often feel divided and exclusionary. What would it mean to turn that on its head? This workshop explores how we can actively include ourselves and others, while acknowledging the real need for both inclusive and separatist spaces. Together, we will examine the barriers that create exclusion—such as access, power dynamics, and social...
Tarot and Tie
Let tarot guide the scene. Through its rich imagery and storytelling, we’ll co-create a living, ever-changing tableau—one tie at a time. This playful, collaborative space invites you to explore connection through rope, inspired by the symbols and moods of the cards. Together, we’ll build a temporary art installation that encourages communication, creativity, and care. Led...
Midsummer Moments – Reflections
At the midpoint of the year, we pause to take stock, reconnect, and gently turn toward what’s next. This session invites you to slow down and be present with yourself, while sharing space with others in a supportive and welcoming environment. Guided by Caritia, this is a held space for intentional reflection through conversation and...
Midsummer Moments – Playtime
Celebrate the Summer Solstice through movement, connection, and play. Together, we’ll honour both light and dark, exploring how they live within us. Caritia invites you into a kink-inspired, body-based space where you can explore your intentions and desires—solo or with others. Whether you’re drawn to rope, sensation, SM, or something a little playful and spicy,...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Breath Play 101
The power of breath is immeasurable and undeniable. It is life essential. The breath connects, transforms, and empowers — its potential is vast and awe-inspiring. In this 3-hour workshop, participants are invited to explore breath play with curiosity, care, and clear boundaries. Together, we’ll delve into the dance between control and trust, safety and surrender....
Delightful Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” - Mamana Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided...
Power can be elusive—shifting, relational, and often misunderstood. Where does power begin and end? Who holds it, and how does it move between us? And how do we distinguish between power over and power within? This workshop invites you into an open, exploratory space to question, unpack, and reimagine your relationship to power, dominance, and...













