Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
Posts by Caritia
Events from this organiser
We are often taught that anger and fear are emotions to suppress. Too much. Too loud. Too inconvenient. We are encouraged to manage them, soften them, or hide them altogether. At the same time, anger and fear are frequently used as tools of control—shaping behaviour, enforcing obedience, and maintaining hierarchy. What if these emotions are...
Play is not an escape from seriousness — it’s a powerful way of engaging with it. Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, play is where curiosity, communication, and connection come alive. When approached with intention, play becomes more than experimentation — it becomes a tool for resilience, creativity, and deeper relational...
Kink Explained: Power Exchange
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of power exchange and power dynamics within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. What we’ll cover Basic definitions of power and power exchange in kink Different ways of playing with power from this framing,...
Choking 101
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
Create gorgeous chest harnesses that leave the arms free. Learn a diamond (hishi) pattern, adjust it for different body shapes, and practice both self-tying and partner tying. A great way to create restriction with a safety exit, or move towards self suspension. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We...
BIPOC Shibari Weekend
For three days, BIPOC folks are invited to gather for a BIPOC-led shibari weekend rooted in learning, connection, and shared practice. This gathering is intentionally created as a space for BIPOC participants to explore rope in community—with care, curiosity, and respect for the many ways we come to this practice. Across the weekend, we will...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Find Your Kinks
The world of kink is vast and full of possibility—let’s explore it together. In this curiosity-led workshop, participants are invited to discover what sparks their interest when it comes to desire, play, and intimacy. Through guided reflection and discussion, we’ll explore different ways people express, feel, and share kink, and begin to understand what resonates...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope in the Air: Side Suspension
Explore your first full suspensions — side-on! We will use your choice of upper body harness with a basket tie to practice partial and full side suspensions. We will play with body angles and load distribution to understand our harnesses and partners better. The suspensions are done starting from the ground. We’re exploring low suspensions...
BIPOC Utopias: Ace & Aro
This month, we will offer space to discuss what it is to be Ace and/or Aro, as a BIPOC individual. Covering what these words/terms mean and diving into how we can support ourselves and others from a play context. This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play...
Radical Inclusion
The world can often feel divided and exclusionary. What would it mean to turn that on its head? This workshop explores how we can actively include ourselves and others, while acknowledging the real need for both inclusive and separatist spaces. Together, we will examine the barriers that create exclusion—such as access, power dynamics, and social...













