Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Breath Play 101
The power of breath is immeasurable and undeniable. It is life essential. The breath connects, transforms, and empowers — its potential is vast and awe-inspiring. In this 3-hour workshop, participants are invited to explore breath play with curiosity, care, and clear boundaries. Together, we’ll delve into the dance between control and trust, safety and surrender....
Delightful Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” - Mamana Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided...
Power can be elusive—shifting, relational, and often misunderstood. Where does power begin and end? Who holds it, and how does it move between us? And how do we distinguish between power over and power within? This workshop invites you into an open, exploratory space to question, unpack, and reimagine your relationship to power, dominance, and...
What happens when one sense goes quiet—and the others begin to speak louder? This workshop invites you to step into the subtle, surprising world of sensory play and sensory deprivation. By gently removing or limiting one sense, we open the door to heightened awareness, deeper presence, and new ways of experiencing touch, anticipation, and connection....
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
How do guilt and shame show up in your everyday life—and how do they shape the way you relate to yourself, your body, and others? This workshop invites you into a guided exploration of these often heavy emotional states, with space for curiosity, reflection, and play. Together, we’ll look at how guilt and shame operate...
What if relationships didn’t have to follow a script? Relationship anarchy invites us to question the norms we’ve inherited about love, intimacy, commitment, and hierarchy. Instead of placing relationships into predefined categories, it asks: what feels true, consensual, and meaningful for you? This discussion-based workshop offers a welcoming space to explore these ideas together. Through...
What happens when you step out of your human roles—and into something more instinctive? This workshop offers a guided space to explore pet play as a form of embodied expression. Through movement, imagination, and playful experimentation, participants are invited to connect with the qualities, behaviors, and energies of different animals—curiosity, loyalty, mischief, softness, wildness. Rather...
Rope Structures: Hip Harnesses
Support starts at the center. Learn practical and beautiful hip harnesses including Ceci’s simple hip harness and the iconic, minimalistic Naka panties. Tie yourself or with others in this class offering adaptations for different body shapes and identities. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We explore specific harness types,...
Queer Kink Camp
This three-day, boot camp style immersive weekend supports you at the beginning of your kink journey. Part playshop, part skills education, and part experiencing, the Queer Kink Camp blends learning with doing. You will be supported by Caritia and Ceci through guided workshops, hands-on practice, and facilitated play spaces. All activities are grounded in consent,...
Add some spice (and a chair)! Learn to tie body parts together and to furniture using simple column ties and frictions. Includes classic positions like gyaku ebi (hogtie), kata-ashi (one leg up), and ebi (folded forward). Perfect for both play sessions and structural understanding. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive...












