Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
Posts by Caritia
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The Care Portal
So often, entering a kink space means stepping into the unknown. New desires, new dynamics, and new ways of relating can be both exhilarating and vulnerable. How do we create frameworks that allow desire to expand while remaining intentional, attentive, and deeply caring? In this workshop, Caritia invites participants to explore care as a creative...
Edge Play – Choking
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
Care Planning
It’s December, and silly season is in full swing. With the demands, expectations, celebrations, and emotional intensity that can come with this time of year, how can you prepare for what lies ahead while still making space for joy and pleasure? Caritia invites participants to create care plans that support the whole self—not just through...
Tis the Season to be Kinky
It’s the kinkiest time of the year—or at least it could be ;) December, Christmas, and all the expectations that surround them can bring up a surprisingly complicated mix of feelings. What if, instead of simply getting through the season, we played with it? How might our existing kinks, desires, and pleasures help us create...
SMishmas
Do you hate Christmas? Perhaps you just haven’t found the right way to celebrate it. SMishmas invites you to embrace the darker, stranger, more deliciously mischievous side of the festive season. Caritia welcomes participants into a playful exploration of sadism, masochism, sensation, and psychological play, using the imagery and absurdity of Christmas as our creative...
BIPOC Utopias – Celebration
This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on how to encourage and inspire more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
The holiday season can be a particularly interesting time to think about boundaries. December often brings increased social expectations and obligations—all of which can stretch, blur, or challenge the boundaries we usually rely on. Boundaries can feel like a slippery concept: something we’re constantly told to uphold, understand, and recognise when crossed. Yet many of...
What if relationships didn’t have to follow a script? Relationship anarchy invites us to question the norms we’ve inherited about love, intimacy, commitment, and hierarchy. Instead of placing relationships into predefined categories, it asks: what feels true, consensual, and meaningful for you? This discussion-based workshop offers a welcoming space to explore these ideas together. Through...
Kink Rituals
Winter Solstice will soon be upon us. How would you like to mark this turning point in the year? Caritia invites participants into an intentional, ritual-based space for grounding, reflection, manifestation, and energy play. Together, we’ll explore how ritual can help us honour where we are, release what no longer serves us, and consciously invite...
Rope Fundamentals: First Frictions
This class introduces the key friction techniques that make your ties hold, lock, and flow. You’ll learn the difference between a counter tension and half hitch, how to secure with a Munter hitch, and what a hojo cuff is and why it’s so useful. These building blocks are essential for progressing into more complex harnesses...
Reclaim Your Power
The busiest time of the year has flown by, and we are in the depths of the seasons - depending on your hemisphere, it's quiet, and you have returned to work or are about to. Your routines will re-establish themselves rather quickly. What will you do to support yourself with having some play, fun and...












