Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Delving into Dominance is a weekend-long exploration that can includes five parts: Map of Me (Friday), Boundaries and Negotiation (Saturday), Styles of Leadership (Saturday), Archetypes and Inspiration (Sunday) and Discovering your Dominance (Sunday) You can also book the entire weekend for a discounted price. Caritia invites you to shape your own learning experience. You can...
Delving into Dominance is a weekend-long exploration that can includes five parts: Map of Me (Friday), Boundaries and Negotiation (Saturday), Styles of Leadership (Saturday), Archetypes and Inspiration (Sunday) and Discovering your Dominance (Sunday) You can also book the entire weekend for a discounted price. Caritia invites you to shape your own learning experience. You can...
Delving into Dominance is a weekend-long exploration that can includes five parts: Map of Me (Friday), Boundaries and Negotiation (Saturday), Styles of Leadership (Saturday), Archetypes and Inspiration (Sunday) and Discovering your Dominance (Sunday) You can also book the entire weekend for a discounted price. Caritia invites you to shape your own learning experience. You can...
Delving into Dominance is a weekend-long exploration that can includes five parts: Map of Me (Friday), Boundaries and Negotiation (Saturday), Styles of Leadership (Saturday), Archetypes and Inspiration (Sunday) and Discovering your Dominance (Sunday) You can also book the entire weekend for a discounted price. Caritia invites you to shape your own learning experience. You can...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
CNC – Exploring Edges
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires that requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Radical Anger
Let's take it from Maya Angelou. Let’s find transformational energies for transformative times. The present-day and historical views that society has on anger are not ones Caritia feels are in anyone’s best interest, and a number of scholars and psychologists agree. There are rarely spaces or places where anger can be freely and openly expressed,...
liminal | ˈlɪmɪnl |adjective technical occupying a position at, or on both sides of, a boundary or threshold relating to a transitional or initial stage of a process Kink and the practices of BDSM have always stood at the edges of society, forming it's own ways of being and doing. Kink sits at the edge...
This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on how to encourage and inspire more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to...
Add some spice (and a chair)! Learn to tie body parts together and to furniture using simple column ties and frictions. Includes classic positions like gyaku ebi (hogtie), kata-ashi (one leg up), and ebi (folded forward). Perfect for both play sessions and structural understanding. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive...
The Care Portal
So often, entering a kink space means stepping into the unknown. New desires, new dynamics, and new ways of relating can be both exhilarating and vulnerable. How do we create frameworks that allow desire to expand while remaining intentional, attentive, and deeply caring? In this workshop, Caritia invites participants to explore care as a creative...
Edge Play – Choking
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...













