Our "new" space is already turning three (!!) so we’re having a queer little summer party about it. Come hang out, dance, play games, eat daddy Antje's sausages, lie in a cuddle puddle, make new friends, avoid eye contact with the new friends, and generally exist together in a nice way. It’s a sober space,...
Events
BIPOC Utopias: Ace & Aro
This month, we will offer space to discuss what it is to be Ace and/or Aro, as a BIPOC individual. Covering what these words/terms mean and diving into how we can support ourselves and others from a play context. This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Japanese inspired rope bondage or shibari comes in many different styles, both in Japan and outside. This class is your introduction into understanding the key differences of styles like Akechi , Naka, or Yukimura Ryu. We will also continue exploring modular thinking by learning what happens after the basic blueprint. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals...
Radical Inclusion
The world can often feel divided and exclusionary. What would it mean to turn that on its head? This workshop explores how we can actively include ourselves and others, while acknowledging the real need for both inclusive and separatist spaces. Together, we will examine the barriers that create exclusion—such as access, power dynamics, and social...
Queer Rope Jam
It's queer rope jam time, babes! Once in a while you gotta do ropey stuff amongst other queers and just enjoy yourself. No posing, no being cool or extra good at doing ropey things needed. Come as you are, exhale and enjoy yourselves. What is a rope jam? Rope jams is an open space format....
Having Sex with Vulvas
Curious about how to give (or get) better pleasure with vulvas, but not sure where to start? Think you already know it all? (You probably don’t—and that’s okay.) Whether you want to increase pleasure for your own or someone else’s vulva, this class is for you. In this deep-dive, inclusive, and no-shame space, you’ll learn:...
Let tarot guide the scene. Through its rich imagery and storytelling, we’ll co-create a living, ever-changing tableau—one tie at a time. This playful, collaborative space invites you to explore connection through rope, inspired by the symbols and moods of the cards. Together, we’ll build a temporary art installation that encourages communication, creativity, and care. Led...
At the midpoint of the year, we pause to take stock, reconnect, and gently turn toward what’s next. This session invites you to slow down and be present with yourself, while sharing space with others in a supportive and welcoming environment. Guided by Caritia, this is a held space for intentional reflection through conversation and...
Celebrate the Summer Solstice through movement, connection, and play. Together, we’ll honour both light and dark, exploring how they live within us. Caritia invites you into a kink-inspired, body-based space where you can explore your intentions and desires—solo or with others. Whether you’re drawn to rope, sensation, SM, or something a little playful and spicy,...
Ready to deepen your connection through rope? This immersive workshop focuses on intentional tying: building trust, communicating clearly, and using positions and tempo to create emotional or playful experiences. Includes hands-on practice and guided scenarios. Ideal after completing the fundamentals series. Topic: Predicaments Predicaments are lose-lose situation in rope play that can be a lot...
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...












