Let's create an intentionally playful space together to explore power and power dynamics. Caritia invites participants to spend three hours in joyful exploration of boundaries, group formation, using verbal and non-verbal ways to discover (and rediscover) the art of leading and following. Together, we will set personal intentions for finding clarity in the ways each...
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Sensation play comes in many forms, and wax play explores the edge between warmth, intensity, and pleasure. Because it involves heat and skin contact, wax play requires thoughtful preparation, clear boundaries, and informed technique. In this workshop, Caritia guides participants through the layered and adaptable practice of wax play. Together, we will explore different types...
This workshop is a pause before taking your very first step into kink. Entirely theoretical and intentionally info-heavy, it offers a safe, low-pressure space to get familiar with what kink can be, what it is not, and how to begin exploring it without harming yourself or others. Sex therapist Ceci Ferox will introduce the foundations...
Wild Unicorns – Kink Party
Wild Unicorns is a kink-positive, sex-possible, all-bodies-embracing, sober pop-up play space that welcomes LGBTQIA+ people who are interested in co-creating a juicy, kinky, sensual, and chill evening together. You are encouraged to be the wild little unicorn you always wanted to be and join in a way that makes you feel the most empowered and...
If you are into chasing thrills, join us in this beginner friendly exploration of consensually getting scared or scaring others. We will be exploring What is fear play? Info on how to navigate edge play Creating a risk profile for emotional SM Types of fear: jump scares, ambientation, mind fucks and more Set and...
Queer Spring Rituals
This is a weekend of queer community, play, and ritual. Each day has a theme - from pain to cuddles to an orgy - and consists of workshops to warm up, a communal meal, and a long play party. You can join for one day, two days, or the whole weekend. Communal rituals and play...
Mummification & Rope
Lets layer, explore different materials, and find what sensations and headspaces we can enjoy with mummification and rope. Using tights, fabric, vet wrap (medical tape), and rope over the top to create total encasement, Sophia will demonstrate ways she’s been exploring rope in combination with mummification. This session will explore how this type of play...
Kink is Political: Suffering
This Easter month, we’ll interrogate the Christian underpinnings of kink and BDSM aesthetics by turning towards the concept of “suffering.” We will read Emannuel Levinas’ essay “Useless Suffering” alongside discussions of seme in Japanese rope bondage. We’ll ask: what are the political implications of connecting beauty, meaning, and suffering? What would a tying, kink, or...
Kink as Vessel for Grief
So little space is gifted to sadness and grief; frequently, these emotions are bypassed and sidelined. Caritia believes honouring, acknowledging, and releasing grief can be liberating for all aspects of your body and life. How can the practices of kink intentionally support opening up of self? Supported by the ritual container of collective gathering. Caritia...
Map of Me is a journey of identity and self-discovery, approached through a intersectional, nuanced and informed critique-based lens. Together, we will explore the different parts of ourselves that seek expression and uncover what might be holding them back or motivating them to come forward. Caritia will guide participants through discussion, exercises and prompts for...
Delving Into Dominance – Series
Delving into Dominance aims to offer a view into the aspects of power and empowerment, from a decolonial perspective and framework. Allowing for intentional creation/co-creation of spaces that place pleasure, curiosity and intention at the forefront of your personal desires. In this 4-part online series, Caritia will guide participants through the various aspects of dominance...
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of pain and punishment within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. Join sex therapist Ceci Ferox for a clear introduction to how pain and punishment are commonly used and understood in kink contexts. We’ll...













