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JUL

Repairing Kink Ruptures – What to Do When Things Go Wrong

7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CEST · LGBTQIA+ & Friends
VIRTUAL

Quick Info

When:
7. July 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CEST
Where:
online
Format:
class
Who can join:
LGBTQIA+ & Friends
Constellation:
solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
Language:
English
What to know:
Be prepared to have conversations and share in the class (in chat or on microphone)
What to bring:
Paper & pen
Recording:
Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
Questions:
Message us via info@karada-house.de

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Things will go wrong in kink. Miscommunication, emotional overwhelm, consent slips, physical mishaps, or simply mismatched expectations — ruptures are a real risk in when working with intensity, vulnerability, and power exchange.

This workshop focuses on what happens after the moment shit hits the fan.

We’ll explore how to recognize rupture as it’s happening, how to pause without escalating harm, and how to repair connection in ways that build trust rather than erode it. Drawing on principles from restorative and transformative justice, we’ll look beyond blame and punishment toward accountability, repair, and the possibility of doing things differently.

What does it mean to take responsibility in a kink context? How do we respond to harm without collapsing into defensiveness or exile? And how can repair processes strengthen our dynamics and communities?

Expect discussion, guided reflection, and practical frameworks you can apply in scenes, relationships, and shared spaces. This is not about avoiding mistakes, it’s about learning how to respond to them with care, clarity, and integrity.

What to expect

  • Frameworks for recognizing different types of rupture (communication breakdowns, consent issues, emotional harm)
  • Tools for pausing, de-escalating, and responding in the moment without making things worse
  • Approaches to accountability and repair
  • Exploration of common defensive patterns (avoidance, blame, shutdown) and how to move through them
  • Ways to rebuild trust after things go wrong

Who should join

  • People practicing kink who want to handle mistakes and missteps more skillfully
  • Tops, bottoms, and switches interested in building safer, more resilient dynamics
  • Anyone who has experienced or caused a rupture and wants better tools for repair
  • Community organizers, hosts, teachers, or facilitators navigating conflict and harm
  • Those open to engaging with accountability, rather than avoiding or outsourcing it

Facilitator

kink relationship ruptures,harm reduction

Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci is a queer, non-binary, and fat sexologist. They are a huge sex nerd with a special interest in shibari and have been teaching bondage and BDSM for 10 years. At Karada House, Ceci facilitates workshops, does sex and couples therapy, and supports strategic and day-to-day admin work. They also regularly take on the role of official house awkward and can be found doing weird little dances in the...

Learn More

http://www.ceciferox.fi

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