As humans living in these bodies, we hold many possibilities to explore creatively, yet how often do we do so? Especially as adults. Let's be a little sadistic, a little bratty and very playful. Participants are invited to spend 3-hours in play with their senses - sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. Through intentional games...
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Kink as a Vessel for Grief
So little space is gifted to sadness and grief; frequently, these emotions are bypassed and sidelined. Caritia believes honouring, acknowledging, and releasing grief can be liberating for all aspects of your body and life. How can the practices of kink intentionally support opening up of self? Supported by the ritual container of collective gathering. Caritia...
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...
Introduction to D/s Dynamics
This workshop will cover different types of dominant/submissive power dynamics and how to play with them. We will discuss how to create scenes that fulfill your dominance and/or submission fantasies and needs, as well as what style of d/s works for you. What we will talk about and show in this class Intro to kink...
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Map of Me is a journey of identity and self-discovery, approached through a intersectional, nuanced and informed critique-based lens. Together, we will explore the different parts of ourselves that seek expression and uncover what might be holding them back or motivating them to come forward. Caritia will guide participants through discussion, exercises and prompts for...
Delving Into Dominance – Series
Delving into Dominance aims to offer a view into the aspects of power and empowerment, from a decolonial perspective and framework. Allowing for intentional creation/co-creation of spaces that place pleasure, curiosity and intention at the forefront of your personal desires. In this 4-part online series, Caritia will guide participants through the various aspects of dominance...
Wild Unicorns – Play Party
Wild Unicorns is a sex-possible, kink-positive, all-bodies-embracing, sober pop-up play space that welcomes LGBTQIA+ people who are interested in co-creating a juicy, kinky, sensual, and chill evening together. You are encouraged to be the wild little unicorn you always wanted to be and join in a way that makes you feel the most empowered and...
Choking 101
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
In boundaries and negotiation, we will break down the key elements and practical steps for creating and maintaining a shared space where you and your partner(s) can explore together while holding each other accountable. Care, health, safety, and communication styles are essential pieces of the play puzzle. Whilst then co-creating protocols that support each person’s...
Kink is Political is an online discussion with Addie Tahl, Georg Barkas, Andrea Rimon, and occasional special guests. Participants are invited to join a discussion during which we unite critique with an emphasis on the practical and day-to-day issues and challenges of kink, intimacy, and relationships. Focusing on concepts central to BDSM, leather, rope, and...
Fun with Floggers
Impact play is a wide spectrum of play types and flogging is one. It's a practice the goes way back as a ritual, a sexual practice and punishment. An example of it can be seen in the Italian Etruscan tomb - Tomb of Whipping. There are many examples across continents and cultures. Participants are invited...












