Kink & BDSM, What does it mean to us? This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating....
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope in the Air: Face-up Suspension
Lean back, lift up. Learn the art of passive backbends and floating face-up. Combine chest and hip harnesses to explore relaxing into the ropes, breath management, and gentle inversions. This class is suitable for both partnered and self suspension. We will work from standing down, so this class is great for people who don’t have...
Roleplaying is a powerful opportunity for evoking emotions and characters from inside us or invoking personas for an evening of fun. For a variety of Rope bondage is not just for the normative bodies! Whether you or your play partners are transgender, non-binary, gender adventurous, have other body/mind realities, or simply want to be listened...
Rope Hangout: Nature
A rope hangout is an event where we learn from each other, peer-to-peer, get to know each other, and do rope in a relaxed atmosphere, regardless of experience level. All kinds of Japanese inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku are welcome. You can hang out, have drinks and snacks and chat with people if you don't feel like...
Kink is Political – Ambiguity
Kink is Political is an online discussion with Addie Tahl, Georg Barkas, Andrea Rimon, and occasional special guests. Participants are invited to join a discussion during which we unite critique with an emphasis on the practical and day-to-day issues and challenges of kink, intimacy, and relationships. Focusing on concepts central to BDSM, leather, rope, and...
Snuggles and Story Time
Let’s slow down together and end the week/welcome the weekend with some soft body contact and co-regulation. Whether you’re an experienced cuddle slut or curious about how to cuddle with people you don’t know, this session will provide some gentle guidance into a cozy cuddle puddle. We’ll double down on the coziness with a quiet...
This online workshop is a BIPOC-only space, facilitated by a BIPOC rope practitioner, created for folks who want to deepen their rope skills and play with technique in a supportive learning environment. Participants should have a working knowledge of rope basics and feel comfortable with common rope terminology. Caritia will guide participants through building fluidity...
Step into a warm, welcoming space designed to help you slow down and tend to the relationships that matter most. What I Love About Us is an in-person “relationship spa” where partners and friends can refresh connection, appreciation, and understanding. Through gentle, guided activities, reflective prompts, and sweet exercises, participants will explore what’s working well,...
This is a space dedicated to everyone self-identifying as fat who's into shibari or other types of rope bondage. We will luxuriate, rant, do rope, and just generally engage in revolutionary action. Together, we’ll center fat joy, fat bodies, and fat experience in rope — without apology and without shrinking ourselves. This gathering prioritizes comfort,...
Curious to dip your toes into BDSM but not sure where to start? Join the Pleasure Playground - a hands-on buffet of beginner friendly kink experiences. In this playful, low-pressure workshop, you’ll get a guided introduction to a variety of consent-centered kink concepts in a supportive and queer environment. Rather than going deep into any...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...













