What does it mean to be a little mean? How can sadism become playful, connective, attentive, or even tender? This workshop invites participants to explore the quieter, subtler, and more personal expressions of sadism beyond intensity alone. Together, we will investigate how teasing, tension, anticipation, discomfort, control, humour, and unusual impulses can support play, intimacy,...
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Ouch² – Advanced Impact Play
This class covers all the things that the usual introduction to impact play classes cannot. Mamana will take you on a ride down the rabbit hole of why people do impact play, what the reasons are to give or receive pain, and how to tweak and work with the different reasons and kinds of pain...
How well do you know your body? Frequently, within kink, intimacy, and body-based practices, this question comes up. It is not a prerequisite to know everything, as part of the play is discovering exactly this; however, if we wish to be intentional and caring within the plays and practices we participate in, what foundational knowledge...
This workshop will be a potpourri of play types that can happen without any tools or extra objects — you, your bodies, and your imagination are all that’s needed. Think of it as snack-sized experiences within a boundary container. Caritia will offer techniques to explore tension, anticipation, sensation, power, movement, stillness, attention, and connection through...
Switchy AF
How switchy are you? Have you ever wondered why, in some moments, you want to take control, while in others you want to surrender, receive, follow, resist, or flow between roles as play unfolds? Join Caritia for this 2-hour workshop and discussion session diving into the wonderfully nuanced, messy, playful, and personal world of switching....
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope in the Air: M-Shape Suspension
Discover the dynamic, expressive M-shape. Tie naka panties, attach thigh cuffs, and balance multiple lines to lift your partner into beautiful, seated aerial positions. Great for experimenting with asymmetry, exposure, and emotion in partnered or self suspension. Rope in the Air You’ve got your groundwork sorted. Now we take things up — literally. Learn...
Curious about the possible intersections between kink and spirituality? Wondering how intention, meaning, and the sense of the sacred might weave into your play? In this interactive workshop, Caritia invites participants to explore what happens when we bring awareness, intention, and a sense of spirit into kink — and why we might choose to do...
A three-part series for couples and polycules, exploring the most common places where sex breaks down, and how to rebuild with intention, honesty, and skill. Grounded in sex therapy and informed by kink-aware, queer-inclusive practice, this series looks at sex not as an isolated act, but as something shaped by conflict, connection, and relationship. July...
This session is for folks who would love to dip their toes into rope and are unsure where to begin. The tying style will be Japanese-inspired, aka shibari, or kinbaku. Caritia will take participants through the basics, providing practical, hands-on guidance on the foundational principles of this rope style, sprinkling in a little history, physics,...
Below the Belt: Genital Bondage
This class offers a playful approach to crotch ropes and rope for sex. In this session, we will explore simple and effective ties for exposure, eroticism, and stimulation. You will learn different types of crotch ropes for different bodies, and how to incorporate toys such as vibrators or dildos into them. From light sensation play...













