You’ve read the books, joined the discussions, and explored ideas of power, consent, and leadership — now it’s time to bring that knowledge into your body. This guided practice day is for those who already have a foundation in dominance and power dynamics and want to develop more hands-on experience in leading, directing, and holding...
Events
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Radical Anger
Let's take it from Maya Angelou. Let’s find transformational energies for transformative times. The present-day and historical views that society has on anger are not ones Caritia feels are in anyone’s best interest, and a number of scholars and psychologists agree. There are rarely spaces or places where anger can be freely and openly expressed,...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
This monthly intermediate open rope training is directed at building on what has been taught in the Beginner Open Rope Training. We will dive deeper into topics, techniques and ideas that give more range and depth to your rope practice. Topic of Exploration: Kata-ashi Suspension Open, beautiful, and vulnerable. Tie using your choice of chest...
No two relationships with our Self is the same, so why should yours look like anyone else’s? Let’s work beyond the statements that say “just love yourself” to figure out how to relate to yourself and help you thrive. Whether you’re struggling with isolation, dealing with loss, or want to delve deeper into what makes...
Rope Hangout: Self-Tying
A rope hangout is an event where we learn from each other, peer-to-peer, get to know each other, and do rope in a relaxed atmosphere, regardless of experience level. All kinds of Japanese inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku are welcome. You can hang out, have drinks and snacks and chat with people if you don't feel like...
Effective rope handling can make the difference between a good and a fantastic rope scene. There are two ways of looking at efficiency when tying, one with relation to time and one with relation to control. In this two part class series, we will be working on ways to handle ropes and bodies in ways...
Kink is Political is an online discussion with Addie Tahl, Georg Barkas, Andrea Rimon, and occasional special guests. Participants are invited to join a discussion during which we unite critique with an emphasis on the practical and day-to-day issues and challenges of kink, intimacy, and relationships. Focusing on concepts central to BDSM, leather, rope, and...
Let’s slow down together and end the week/welcome the weekend with some soft body contact and co-regulation. Whether you’re an experienced cuddle slut or curious about how to cuddle with people you don’t know, this session will provide some gentle guidance into a cozy cuddle puddle. We’ll double down on the coziness with a quiet...
Impact Play for Newbies
Connecting with your body and tuning into sensation can be both exciting and challenging. And impact play can be a very helpful tool on that discovery. Caritia invites you on a journey through the sights, sounds, and sensations of impact play—bringing in intention, rhythm, and toys. Starting with the fundamentals of positioning, we'll gradually move...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...












