The general idea of consent and boundaries is often portrayed to be as simple as offering someone a cup of tea. When in reality - it’s a living, evolving practice shaped by our experiences, identities, intimacies, and power dynamics. In this 3-hour in-person workshop, we’ll get curious about boundaries and negotiation through play, reflection, and...
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Reclaiming My Sexual Body
Alert! Our sexual bodies have been hijacked by mainstream media and culture. From porn scripts to wellness trends to productivity-style pleasure tips, we’re constantly told how our bodies should look, feel, and respond. This 3-hour virtual workshop is an invitation to interrupt those messages, unlearn harmful myths, and reclaim pleasure on your own terms. Join...
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of pain and punishment within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. Join sex therapist Ceci Ferox for a clear introduction to how pain and punishment are commonly used and understood in kink contexts. We’ll...
SM Weekend: Genital & Nipple Torment
This focused class centers on precision play involving highly sensitive anatomy. Participants will learn about nerve concentration, tissue vulnerability, and the importance of pacing and communication when working with genitals and nipples. Techniques for controlled torment, including genital impact (demonstrated with a model), will be discussed in a safety-forward and skill-based context. The workshop emphasizes...
Kink Explained: Power Exchange
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of power exchange and power dynamics within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. What we’ll cover Basic definitions of power and power exchange in kink Different ways of playing with power from this framing,...
Everyone knows how to wank, right? You'd be surprised... In a world set on policing our bodies, it's hard to center our own pleasure - even when nobody else is around. Insecurities around your body, feelings of not being normal, worries about vibrator use or grip strength, and difficulties with getting into the mood are...
Desire mapping is a guided exploration of your desires, boundaries, and how to express them confidently with others. Led by Ceci, a skilled sex therapist, this session offers a safe space to navigate common questions and challenges around sexuality, desires, and communication. Through reflective exercises, group discussion, and shared insights, you’ll learn how to tune...
Having Sex with Vulvas
Curious about how to give (or get) better pleasure with vulvas, but not sure where to start? Think you already know it all? (You probably don’t—and that’s okay.) Whether you want to increase pleasure for your own or someone else’s vulva, this class is for you. In this deep-dive, inclusive, and no-shame space, you’ll learn:...
Things will go wrong in kink. Miscommunication, emotional overwhelm, consent slips, physical mishaps, or simply mismatched expectations — ruptures are a real risk in when working with intensity, vulnerability, and power exchange. This workshop focuses on what happens after the moment shit hits the fan. We’ll explore how to recognize rupture as it’s happening, how...
A three-part series for couples and polycules, exploring the most common places where sex breaks down, and how to rebuild with intention, honesty, and skill. Grounded in sex therapy and informed by kink-aware, queer-inclusive practice, this series looks at sex not as an isolated act, but as something shaped by conflict, connection, and relationship. July...
A three-part series for couples and polycules, exploring the most common places where sex breaks down, and how to rebuild with intention, honesty, and skill. Grounded in sex therapy and informed by kink-aware, queer-inclusive practice, this series looks at sex not as an isolated act, but as something shaped by conflict, connection, and relationship. July...
A three-part series for couples and polycules, exploring the most common places where sex breaks down, and how to rebuild with intention, honesty, and skill. Grounded in sex therapy and informed by kink-aware, queer-inclusive practice, this series looks at sex not as an isolated act, but as something shaped by conflict, connection, and relationship. July...











