
Quick Info
- When:
- 13. August 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CEST
- Where:
- online
- Format:
- workshop
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+, only
- Constellation:
- paired (ticket is per pair)
- Language:
- English
- What to know:
- If you're joining as a polycule, you only need one ticket
- What to bring:
- Paper & pen, objects or clothes that help you feel comfortable & grounded
- Recording:
- Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
A three-part series for couples and polycules, exploring the most common places where sex breaks down, and how to rebuild with intention, honesty, and skill.
Grounded in sex therapy and informed by kink-aware, queer-inclusive practice, this series looks at sex not as an isolated act, but as something shaped by conflict, connection, and relationship.
July 16th: Part 1 – Fight
When sex isn’t working, it’s often not about sex.
The first part of the series looks at the conflicts, tensions, and relational patterns that block desire and connection. We’ll explore how resentment, misaligned expectations, communication breakdowns, and unspoken needs show up in intimate spaces.
You’ll learn how to identify the actual fight you’re having (hint: it’s rarely about the surface issue), and how to engage conflict in a way that creates connection instead of distance, and safety instead of resentment. We’ll work with tools for tenderness, empathy, and staying present in difficult conversations, negotiation, and boundary setting.
July 30th: Part 2 – Fun
Before sex can work, the relationship needs to feel alive.
When everything becomes logistical, tense, or goal-oriented, intimacy often follows suit. This workshop focuses on the role of play, fun, lightness, and connection outside of sex, and how their absence can quietly erode desire.
We’ll explore how partners lose access to shared joy, and what it takes to rebuild it. What creates a sense of “us”? How do playfulness, curiosity, and mutual enjoyment show up in everyday interactions? And how can you reintroduce them without it feeling forced or performative?
This session is about widening the lens: seeing sex as something that grows out of the overall tone of a relationship, not something that can be fixed in isolation.
August 13th: Part 3 – Fuck
Once conflict is addressed and connection is alive, how do we actually do sex in a way that works?
This workshop focuses on the experience of sex itself: arousal, pacing, communication during intimacy, and the role of play within sex. We’ll explore how to move away from scripts and expectations, and toward something more responsive, collaborative, and alive.
What makes sex feel fun, engaging, and connected in the moment? How can we understand and embrace each other’s sexual blueprints? And how do we navigate mismatched desire, shifting arousal, or things not going according to plan?
Expect honest conversations about bodies, variability, and the realities of sex, along with tools to build attunement, flexibility, and shared enjoyment. This is where the pieces come together: not perfect sex, but sex that actually works for the people having it.
What to expect
- A structured, three-part approach: conflict (Fight), relational connection (Fun), and sexual experience (Fuck)
- Real-time conversations and exercises with your partner(s)
- Insight into how non-sexual dynamics (resentment, disconnection, routine) shape sexual difficulties
- Tools for navigating difficult conversations, rebuilding connection, and shifting relational patterns
- Exploration of play, curiosity, and responsiveness – both in relationships and in sex
- Honest, practical discussion of how sex actually works and how to take agency
Who it’s for
- LGBTQIA+ couples and polycules feeling stuck, frustrated, or disconnected in their sex lives
- People who want to work on things actively — not just get information and techniques
- Those open to reflecting on their role in relational and sexual dynamics
- Kink-aware, queer, and non-normative folks looking for inclusive, applicable frameworks
- Anyone interested in building sex that feels more connected, flexible, and alive rather than scripted
Facilitator
More Information
You can still join even if you couldn’t make it from the beginning. When you buy a ticket, you will receive a link/links to previous parts of the series. All parts will be available for 14 days after the end of the series.
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
After your successful ticket purchase, you will be sent an email with the Zoom login data for this event. If you do not receive it, message us with your order number so we can send it again. Some email services "disappear" our messages so please check if you received our login data email.
If this session includes a recording you can obtain it by simply purchasing a ticket. You will automatically get access to the live class and the recording as they come in a package. The recording login data will be sent out 24–48h after the live event and will be available for (at least) 14 days after the live event. Please note these classes are places for experience, not for instruction. Nothing here is tested or graded — only perceived, felt, and shared. All offerings are invitations to reflect — no curriculum, no exam, no training. Recordings exist solely to support personal integration and are available only for a limited time.
Yes, because you are paying for the knowledge our facilitators distribute, not for the access to Zoom itself. We kindly ask you to respect that and pay accordingly.
Before purchasing a solidarity ticket, please check here if you are eligible for one.
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
- Virtual: The session will be held on ZOOM
- Live captions are available
- Live translation in multiple languages is available
- Transcripts of the session are available
- The session is moderated and tech support is available
- Communication in the session is via chat and/or direct communication via microphone

