Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires which requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
Events from this organizer
Time to upgrade some of the most important kink and life skills! The general idea of consent and boundaries is often portrayed to be as simple as offering someone a cup of tea. However, in reality, it is much more nuanced and complicated, especially when considering our intersectionalities, different contexts, and power structures. And then...
Our BDSM scenes and subcultures are embedded in our society and societal norms, in what we know, and in what we want to transform. Kinky people do not exist in a bubble in which power relationships no longer matter just because we negotiate certain dynamics in our play relationships or are "nice" to each...
Welcome to Queerope 2023! This year we are bringing back the warm-up sessions to ease into the conference but also take really good care of our bodies, energy, and mental health. For most sessions - like this one - Caritia will be your gentle guide. This session will help you orientate yourself and also get...
There are times when it simply doesn't work to sit on the floor or to stand to tie. Tying with, on, and to a chair has many playful advantages. In this workshop, Caritia will aim to introduce participants to the joy of combining comfort and stress when tying. Details: Format: workshop Minimum Knowledge Level: –...
Caritia offers this space for participants to share thoughts, make requests and ask questions about this season's Queerope. You are encouraged to: be comfy, make yourself at home (at home) and send your thoughts in advance if you wish to remain anonymous. Caritia invites you to pull up a seat and simply bring your listening...
Our intimate connections can be a mixture of complex, delightful messiness that each one can find a challenging prospect to walk through. Add to that the multiplicity of how each individual processes through your senses, minds, and emotions, the potential for misunderstanding is vast. When intimacy, touch, and desire are added to that already...
With the societal models and the many destructive examples of domination, it can be a struggle to find the desire and erotism in power play. How do you embrace intentional and consensual power hierarchies? What does it mean to be dominant from a decolonized, deconstructed, dynamic play perspective? Join Caritia for this weekend-long workshop deep...
How do shame and guilt manifest for you in your everyday life? What strategies can you embrace to address the heavy and serious topic of trauma? Can kink offer intentional containers with boundaries as support for releasing these energies that block and stifle our potential to relate in different and playful ways? Caritia invites participants...
Curious about the possible intersections between kink and spirituality? Wondering how to integrate the sacred into the profane? In this interactive session, Caritia explores what happens when we bring intention and invite spirit into our play, and why we might want to do so. They will be breaking down their definitions of "conscious kink", and...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning Japanese-inspired rope bondage within a closed group setting. This 5-week-course is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever and gives more structure and time to learn than our drop-in classes. Each week Caritia will encourage you to develop your skills, ground yourself in...
Kink and intersectionality are topics that are often spoken about separately from each other or on a more theoretical basis while trying to understand systemic oppression. Only rarely is the opportunity given to go into the nuance of the idea of how intersectionality affects our kinks and vice versa. Caritia aims to offer space for...













