Consensual Non-Consent 101

19jan19:0021:30Consensual Non-Consent 101LGBTQIA+ & FriendsEvent OverVirtual Event19:00 - 21:30 FacilitatorCaritiaCategorykink


(Thursday) 19:00 - 21:30 CET





Event Details

Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires which requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled waters.

Join Caritia for this open discussion on the topic, covering the basics and answering your questions in this co-created space.

For starters, we will dive into questions such as: What is CNC? Why would anyone wish to engage in this form of play? And how many different ways can it turn out? Where are the boundaries between consent and the desire to play with taboos? Feel free to bring your own ideas and questions to the (virtual) table


Event Details

Date & Time:  January 19th, 2023, 7 pm – 9.30 pm

Format: discussion

Minimum Knowledge Level:

What to Bring: ideas, questions, partners, ways to keep notes

Solo or Partnered: any constellation works. Everyone needs to buy a ticket

Class recording: yes. This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 14 days after the event.


What we will teach:
– establishing boundaries and boundary setting
– understanding what CNC is and is not
– who is this for?
– intentions within CNC
– support strategies
– communication tools

Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid,

Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.

What else to know?

Solidarity tickets are reduced-price tickets for people who cannot afford the full price. If the soli price is still to high for you, please message us at




About Caritia: lives as an LGBTQAI+, gender-fluid, BiPoC (assigned female at birth) individual. Walking a path with invisible disabilities and the living challenges which accompany that life. Educator, creative and ongoing work in process, whose advocacy for establishing boundaries is as strong as the desire to love with truth and honesty. On a quiet mission to destigmatise difference and return power to each individual. Using the language of kink to the point of geeky excitement. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing too deeply ‘listen’ to (her) body holistically, from the inside out.

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