With the societal models and the many destructive examples of domination, it can be a struggle to find the desire and erotism in power play. How do you embrace intentional and consensual power hierarchies? What does it mean to be dominant from a decolonized, deconstructed, dynamic play perspective? Join Caritia for this 2.5-hour workshop which...
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Engaging with participants and students, Caritia has been asked questions about the interrelations of kink, altered states, spirituality, and trauma. What is an altered state? Can kink support or give space to dealing with challenges in your life? There is so much curiosity around chemical highs, so-called "natural" highs, and changed states of being, let’s...
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires which requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
With the societal models and the many destructive examples of domination, it can be a struggle to find the desire and erotism in power play. How do you embrace intentional and consensual power hierarchies? What does it mean to be dominant from a decolonized, deconstructed, dynamic play perspective? Join Caritia for this one day workshop...
Impact Play is fun and its basics are easy to learn. But once you know how, you should also know why you engage in this form of play. Deepen your knowledge with this intermediate workshop and dive deeper into intentions, techniques, and other relevant details to get the most out of your play. Event...
Have you been curious about exploring other ways of exploring and expressing your sexuality and/or desires? Have you always wanted to be more playful in your relating dynamics, yet felt too uncomfortable to share, and now you are frustrated or stuck? Then this is the workshop for you. Join Caritia in taking your first or...
Sadness and grief touch so much of our present-day journey. They are multi-layered and challenging to navigate, but do they have a purpose? How can we personally, collectively, and metaphorically allow ourselves to sit with the complexity of sadness? And cherish, honour, and release our grief? Let’s give ourselves the gift(s) of transformation and inspiration....
As we move into the times of harvest and less light what fruits of your labor are you gathering in as stores for the winter season? What have you learned about yourself and your needs? At the time of the thinned veil who or what do you wish to grieve, celebrate and give reverence to?...
Join us to take your very first steps in learning Japanese-inspired rope bondage within a closed group setting. This weekend intensive course is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever and gives more structure and time to learn than our drop-in classes. Caritia will be your guide and teacher and will encourage you...
Join us to take your very first steps in learning Japanese-inspired rope bondage within a closed group setting. This 5-week-course is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever and gives more structure and time to learn than our drop-in classes. Each week Caritia will encourage you to develop your skills, ground yourself in...
Time to upgrade some of the most important kink and life skills! The general idea of consent and boundaries is often portrayed to be as simple as offering someone a cup of tea. However, in reality, it is much more nuanced and complicated, especially when considering our intersectionalities, different contexts, and power structures. And then...
Let’s find transformational energies for transformative times. What makes anger radical? Can we work to change how we see our own anger? Caritia offers an opportunity to teach and share valuable insights on this complex emotion. This workshop is for anyone who would like shift the paradigm and hear alternative and transformative perspectives on and...













