Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Delving Into Dominance – Series
Delving into Dominance aims to offer a view into the aspects of power and empowerment, from a decolonial perspective and framework. Allowing for intentional creation/co-creation of spaces that place pleasure, curiosity and intention at the forefront of your personal desires. In this 4-part online series, Caritia will guide participants through the various aspects of dominance...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Styles of Leadership is about discovering and exploring how you want to dominate and/or lead in a play or erotic context. Together, we’ll identify personal areas of interest and uncover the joy within different leadership styles. Do you already have the skills, or do they need to be developed? How can you acquire them? Let’s...
SM Weekend: Pain Processing & Theory
This foundational workshop explores how pain is experienced and interpreted by the body and mind. Participants will examine the neurological pathways of pain, the role of adrenaline and endorphins, and the psychological components that shape sensation and meaning. The class provides a framework for understanding different types of impact and intensity while emphasizing consent, negotiation,...
SM Weekend: Spanking
This focused, hands-on workshop explores spanking as a versatile and nuanced form of impact play. Whether you’re refining your technique or building from the ground up, this class breaks down spanking into its core elements: body mechanics, rhythm, intensity, and emotional tone. The Sadomasochist Super Weekend This weekend offers an immersive and thoughtfully structured journey...
This workshop explores intimate, close-range impact and marking techniques. Participants will learn how to deliver face slaps with control and accuracy, as well as how to incorporate biting and scratching in a way that prioritizes safety and consent. The class addresses positioning, force modulation, and the emotional intensity that accompanies this style of play. Emphasis...
SM Weekend: Caning and Flogging
This combined workshop examines the contrast and interplay between the sharp precision of caning and the rhythmic flow of flogging. Participants will explore how each tool creates distinct sensations and how to handle them with accuracy and control. The class covers strike placement, pacing, and skin response management, as well as the development of rhythm...
BIPOC Utopias – Power Exchange
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Archetypes and Inspiration is designed to bring more depth and nuance to your “Style of Leadership”, helping you gain clarity on the path(s) you want to explore. This session will guide you in shaping characters and expressions of your dominant self, allowing you to refine and embody your unique leadership style. Caritia will guide participants...
We are often taught that anger and fear are emotions to suppress. Too much. Too loud. Too inconvenient. We are encouraged to manage them, soften them, or hide them altogether. At the same time, anger and fear are frequently used as tools of control—shaping behaviour, enforcing obedience, and maintaining hierarchy. What if these emotions are...
Play is not an escape from seriousness — it’s a powerful way of engaging with it. Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, play is where curiosity, communication, and connection come alive. When approached with intention, play becomes more than experimentation — it becomes a tool for resilience, creativity, and deeper relational...













