Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Breath Play 101
The power of breath is immeasurable and undeniable. It is life essential. The breath connects, transforms, and empowers — its potential is vast and awe-inspiring. In this 3-hour workshop, participants are invited to explore breath play with curiosity, care, and clear boundaries. Together, we’ll delve into the dance between control and trust, safety and surrender....
Delightful Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” - Mamana Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided...
Power can be elusive—shifting, relational, and often misunderstood. Where does power begin and end? Who holds it, and how does it move between us? And how do we distinguish between power over and power within? This workshop invites you into an open, exploratory space to question, unpack, and reimagine your relationship to power, dominance, and...
What happens when one sense goes quiet—and the others begin to speak louder? This workshop invites you to step into the subtle, surprising world of sensory play and sensory deprivation. By gently removing or limiting one sense, we open the door to heightened awareness, deeper presence, and new ways of experiencing touch, anticipation, and connection....
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
How do guilt and shame show up in your everyday life—and how do they shape the way you relate to yourself, your body, and others? This workshop invites you into a guided exploration of these often heavy emotional states, with space for curiosity, reflection, and play. Together, we’ll look at how guilt and shame operate...
What if relationships didn’t have to follow a script? Relationship anarchy invites us to question the norms we’ve inherited about love, intimacy, commitment, and hierarchy. Instead of placing relationships into predefined categories, it asks: what feels true, consensual, and meaningful for you? This discussion-based workshop offers a welcoming space to explore these ideas together. Through...
What happens when you step out of your human roles—and into something more instinctive? This workshop offers a guided space to explore pet play as a form of embodied expression. Through movement, imagination, and playful experimentation, participants are invited to connect with the qualities, behaviors, and energies of different animals—curiosity, loyalty, mischief, softness, wildness. Rather...
What does it mean to be a little mean? How can sadism become playful, connective, attentive, or even tender? This workshop invites participants to explore the quieter, subtler, and more personal expressions of sadism beyond intensity alone. Together, we will investigate how teasing, tension, anticipation, discomfort, control, humour, and unusual impulses can support play, intimacy,...
How well do you know your body? Frequently, within kink, intimacy, and body-based practices, this question comes up. It is not a prerequisite to know everything, as part of the play is discovering exactly this; however, if we wish to be intentional and caring within the plays and practices we participate in, what foundational knowledge...
This workshop will be a potpourri of play types that can happen without any tools or extra objects — you, your bodies, and your imagination are all that’s needed. Think of it as snack-sized experiences within a boundary container. Caritia will offer techniques to explore tension, anticipation, sensation, power, movement, stillness, attention, and connection through...
Switchy AF
How switchy are you? Have you ever wondered why, in some moments, you want to take control, while in others you want to surrender, receive, follow, resist, or flow between roles as play unfolds? Join Caritia for this 2-hour workshop and discussion session diving into the wonderfully nuanced, messy, playful, and personal world of switching....












