Yes to Desire and No to Toxicity

17jul11:0018:00Yes to Desire and No to ToxicityLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverMoved OnlineVirtual Event11:00 - 18:00 FacilitatorCaritiaCategorymeta

Health Guidelines for this Event

Masks Required
Physical Distance Maintained
Event Area Sanitized


(Saturday) 11:00 - 18:00



Event Details

Our desires are precious treasures that deserve to be seen in the light of day, they are powerful and inspiration for connection. You are the keeper of those precious things in your life. How can you take care of your desires, whilst wishing to trust, explore and connect with others?

This workshop is a group collaboration to discover and get familiar with your boundaries. What your style of negotiation is and the type of language(s) you wish to use to communicate with those you wish to play with. Caritia will guide participants to experiment within this safe(r) container to find limits and the borders of how you wish to navigate a play session / situation.

You can join this class alone or with your partner (everybody needs a ticket).


Event Details

Date & Time:  July 17th, 2021, 11 am – 6 pm

Format: workshop & discussion

Audience:  LGBTQIA+ & Friends

Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: N/a

What to Bring:  Items you would like to be touched with, or give sensation to others, a blindfold,

Solo or Partnered:  solo or partnered (everybody needs to buy a ticket)


What we will teach / offer you

– meditation

–  introductions

–  how do you get to know yourself?

– the language of boundaries

–  exercising your ‘no’

– who negotiating here?

–  trauma awareness and what the body stores

– Feedback and close


Safety Concept

You need to bring proof of testing (not older than 24 hours), or proof of vaccination in order to be let inside.

Hand disinfectant provided in multiple places. All surfaces are disinfected and will be disinfected in between use.

Space is limited to give more space for everyone.

We frequently air the space and also use fans for more circulation.

You must wear a mask at all times.


Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid,

Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.




About Caritia: lives as an LGBTQAI+, gender-fluid, BiPoC (assigned female at birth) individual. Walking a path with invisible disabilities and the living challenges which accompany that life. Educator, creative and ongoing work in process, whose advocacy for establishing boundaries is as strong as the desire to love with truth and honesty. On a quiet mission to destigmatise difference and return power to each individual. Using the language of kink to the point of geeky excitement. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing too deeply ‘listen’ to (her) body holistically, from the inside out.

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