The more we question relationship norms, the more opportunities evolve to create relationships we really want to live. But the Amount of opportunities can also be quiet overwhelming and sometimes opportunities become pressure and new relationship styles become new norms. Instead of simply looking at all the different styles and their pro’s and con’s we...
Events
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope Fundamentals: Moving Bodies
Rope isn’t static — people move, and so should your tying. Learn to guide and follow movement through levers and spirals. Practice safely helping your partner transition between positions like sitting to standing, or moving limbs mid-tie. Rope Fundamentals Start here if you’re new to rope, want a solid foundation of shibari skills, or need...
The Promise of Identity
What is identity? What is a kink identity? Who am I and if yes, why? What are we doing when we identify as? These and more questions are far more important for our daily experience with kink, intimacy, relationships, and sexualities than we might think. In this workshop we are taking a path to a...
Pain Play for Everyone!
A beginner friendly workshop for everyone interested in exploring what pain means to them, what options there are and how to make it pleasurable (if you want it to be!). In this workshop we will be doing a short guided pain exploration exercise. We will ask invite you to bring (if you want) a pain inducing...
Radical Anger
Let's take it from Maya Angelou. Let’s find transformational energies for transformative times. The present-day and historical views that society has on anger are not ones Caritia feels are in anyone’s best interest, and a number of scholars and psychologists agree. There are rarely spaces or places where anger can be freely and openly expressed,...
liminal | ˈlɪmɪnl |adjective technical occupying a position at, or on both sides of, a boundary or threshold relating to a transitional or initial stage of a process Kink and the practices of BDSM have always stood at the edges of society, forming it's own ways of being and doing. Kink sits at the edge...
When facilitating adult groups on topics related to sexuality and kink, with a focus on practical experimentation and action, we often bring our whole selves to the table. Our experiences, our ability to regulate ourselves, our interest and passion for sexuality and kink topics. When the focus is on fun, experimentation and experience, we often...
This is a monthly separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on how to encourage and inspire more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to...
Each of us carries an animal within — raw, instinctive, and ancient — calling us to chase or be chased, to rise up or surrender to the hunt. In this class, we'll explore the wide landscape of primal play, from bedroom growls and teeth on skin to crafted scenes that echo the thrill of pursuit...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Kink is Political – Resistance
Kinksters love talking about resistance. Sometimes it’s demonized, like in the image of the sub who can’t submit or the rope partner who has some impediment to becoming totally transparent in order to “share authentically.” Other times, kink itself is framed as a practice of political resistance, a political act that goes against sexual conservatism...













