This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Events
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
This bi-weekly open training is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being tied. Our open rope training for beginners is a continuous offer for anyone looking for a regular practice space to advance their skills. Each time...
Having Sex with Vulvas
Curious about how to give (or get) better pleasure with vulvas, but not sure where to start? Think you already know it all? (You probably don’t—and that’s okay.) Whether you want to increase pleasure for your own or someone else's vulva, this workshop is for you. In this deep-dive, inclusive, and no-shame space, you’ll learn:...
Playfight & Rough Body Play Lab
Use your body in a vastly different way. Restricted, restrained, maybe even tamed – our bodies are subdued to very strict rules and movements in our daily lives. Time to get primal and rough. Rough body play allows for more fighting, emotions, and a deeper exploration of power dynamics than play fights. Once a month...
Impactful
Impact play is more than, skin, muscle and bones, it's far more than hitting yourself or another person. It is a practice of many layers and dimensions. Join Caritia and be led by your curiosity, shared knowledge and playfulness. Exploring the thuddy to the stingy with intention and focus on the nuances of impact play....
Queer Rope Jam
It's queer rope jam time, babes! Once in a while you gotta do ropey stuff amongst other queers and just enjoy yourself. No posing, no being cool or extra good at doing ropey things needed. Come as you are, exhale and enjoy yourselves. What is a rope jam? Rope jams is an open space format....
Create Your Own Risk Profile
This workshop is designed to help participants gain a clearer understanding of where they fall on the risk spectrum, and how they can use harm and pleasure management strategies to minimize unwanted risks. Our approach is hands-on and interactive: participants will engage with reflection questions, practical exercises, and group discussions. We’ll create a supportive space...
Shy, Ashamed, Hot and Bothered
Explore shame play in a self-reflective and trauma aware way. Whether you are taking your first steps or already have experience, this workshop will give you something to play with. We will do some writing and conversations to define what we want to work on and what is off limits. Ceci will share some easy...
Breath Play 101
The power of breath is unmeasurable and powerful. In this one day in-person workshop participants are invited to explore breath play from an intentional and boundaried perspective, the inter-play of control and trust. Caritia will offer/demonstrate 4-5 different breath play techniques, leaving time for participants to play solo or with others. The day will be...
Delicious Little Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided hands-on workshop...
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...













