Harvest season is upon us and after the heat of the summer, we are moving into fall. In this 1-day playshop Caritia will you guide through the luscious abundance of queer and kinky joy and play. While the world at large is working under the guise of constant scarcity, we will expand ourselves, our...
Events
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Fear, anger, adrenaline, trust is an intensive, 3-hour online workshop exploring the powerful emotional terrain of psychological edge play in kink. This class invites participants to delve into the complex — and potentially transformative — practice of incorporating emotions like fear and anger into consensual BDSM dynamics. Through guided discussion, self-reflection, and partnered conversations, we’ll...
This bi-weekly open training is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being tied. Our open rope training for beginners is a continuous offer for anyone looking for a regular practice space to advance their skills. Each time...
Rope Hangout: Bottoming
A rope hangout is an event where we learn from each other, peer-to-peer, get to know each other, and do rope in a relaxed atmosphere, regardless of experience level. All kinds of Japanese inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku are welcome. You can hang out, have drinks and snacks and chat with people if you don't feel like...
Architectures of Kinbaku
Kinbaku scenes are built first and foremost around people. But also around the rope structure as well as the position and last but not least, the purpose of the scene. If we look at tying from the perspective of how they are constructed and if we acknowledge that everyone has their own view on tying,...
Welcome to Rope for Nerds — the workshop series for rope brains who want to really understand what’s going on under the hood. In this first part, we will focus on modular thinking and frictions in constructing shibari ties. Ever wondered why certain ties just work—while others fall apart or feel awkward? Or how some...
Snuggles and Story Time
Let’s slow down together and end the week/welcome the weekend with some soft body contact and co-regulation. Whether you’re an experienced cuddle slut or curious about how to cuddle with people you don’t know, this session will provide some gentle guidance into a cozy cuddle puddle. We’ll double down on the coziness with a quiet...
Follow the Leader
Let's create an intentionally playful space together to explore power and power dynamics. Caritia invites participants to spend three hours in joyful exploration of boundaries, group formation, using verbal and non-verbal ways to discover (and rediscover) the art of leading and following. Together, we will set personal intentions for finding clarity in the ways each...
Intro to Erotic Hypnosis
This workshop explores what hypnosis is—and what it isn’t—and how it can enrich your kink life. You’ll learn how to begin using hypnosis in a consensual, risk-aware, and responsible way. Designed for complete beginners, this interactive class offers a foundational introduction to erotic hypnosis. We’ll provide you with the knowledge and tools to start exploring...
Hypnosis and Rope
This workshop introduces intermediate hypnosis techniques and demonstrates how they can be integrated with other kinks—focusing primarily on rope bondage. Building on the introductory class, we’ll teach new tools and approaches for creating deeper, more immersive experiences. We’ll explore two main strategies: planning scenes in advance, and using hypnosis to support improvisation. While rope bondage...
BIPOC Utopias – Kink & Intimacy
For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy, capitalism, classism and racism. In an effort to change the narrative, Caritia wishes to offer a monthly gathering of BIPOC to...













