Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...
Events
Guided Self-Tying Session
In this guided self-tying session, Ceci Ferox will guide you through a gentle self-tying experience, helping you reconnect with your body and sense of presence. he session will start with an emotional check-in and end in collective aftercare and sharing to give your solo practice some community support. In this session, you have the freedom...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Trauma-informed Rope
Being 'trauma informed' has become a buzzword in rope (and kink) spaces but many of us still feel unclear about what it actually means, especially in rope. This session invites space to explore your own reactions, patterns, and think about this topic in practice. We will approach being 'trauma informed' not as a moral obligation...
This is our experimental shibari playground for all skill levels. Each month explores a new topic — from shame and semenawa to performance, advanced movement, or the mythical “3rd rope” in TKs. We rotate between two themes, always bringing new inspiration to your rope practice. Open to all levels with foundational knowledge. Bring your curiosity,...
Let’s be real: most of us weren’t taught how to fight well. We either explode, shut down, or dance around the truth until resentment builds. When conversations get hard, so many of us fall into the same traps — defensiveness, blame, avoidance, people-pleasing. But conflict doesn’t have to be a disaster. It can be a...
Playfight & Rough Body Play Lab
Use your body in a vastly different way. Restricted, restrained, maybe even tamed – our bodies are subdued to very strict rules and movements in our daily lives. Time to get primal and rough. Rough body play allows for more fighting, emotions, and a deeper exploration of power dynamics than play fights. Once a month...
The general idea of consent and boundaries is often portrayed to be as simple as offering someone a cup of tea. When in reality - it’s a living, evolving practice shaped by our experiences, identities, intimacies, and power dynamics. In this 3-hour in-person workshop, we’ll get curious about boundaries and negotiation through play, reflection, and...
Pointy, Scratchy, Pokey Oooo
There are a plethora of stories and warnings about not playing with sharp objects; however, some of us live for the thrills and giggles ;) Let's explore what Sharps Play is about. Curious about tools that touch, pierce, and trace across the body with care? This 4-hour in-person workshop invites you to explore the art...
Pointy Pokey Jam
It's happening! The Pointy Oooo, Sharps Awww jam is here! Time to release the adrenaline and endorphines What is a Pointy Pokey jam? Pointy jams is an open space format. Part hangout, part play with other like-minded people who are into needles, staples and knives. Come and hang out and watch others or do some...
Ready to deepen your connection through rope? This immersive workshop focuses on intentional tying: building trust, communicating clearly, and using positions and tempo to create emotional or playful experiences. Includes hands-on practice and guided scenarios. Ideal after completing the fundamentals series. Topic: Modes of a Rope Play Session We’ll look at how intention changes everything:...
Ever wondered why the hottest kink scenes sizzle like a Hollywood thriller? It’s all about the drama, baby, the tension, the pacing, the delicious build-up. Ceci is here to spill the tea on crafting your very own red-hot BDSM sessions. Think of it this way: an unforgettable scene has the same backbone as an unforgettable...













