This class focuses on delivering controlled, force-based impact using kicks and punches. Participants will learn how to align their bodies for stability and precision while targeting muscle groups more suited to absorb deeper sensation. The workshop examines how to generate thuddy impact without compromising safety, and how to build endurance within a scene. Attention is...
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SM Weekend: Caning and Flogging
This combined workshop examines the contrast and interplay between the sharp precision of caning and the rhythmic flow of flogging. Participants will explore how each tool creates distinct sensations and how to handle them with accuracy and control. The class covers strike placement, pacing, and skin response management, as well as the development of rhythm...
SM Weekend: Wax Play
This workshop explores heat as a form of sensation play, focusing on technique, temperature control, and creative application. Participants will learn how different candle types and drip heights affect sensation, as well as how to test and monitor heat safely. The class emphasizes preparation, placement, and skin care before and after play. Wax is presented...
SM Weekend: Painful Rope
This workshop examines the use of rope specifically to create intentional discomfort and heightened sensation. Participants will explore how placement, tension, and positioning can increase intensity while maintaining circulation safety. The class discusses how restrictive elements can amplify psychological and physical experiences, particularly when combined with impact. Emphasis is placed on careful monitoring, clear communication,...
BIPOC Utopias – Power Exchange
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Archetypes and Inspiration is designed to bring more depth and nuance to your “Style of Leadership”, helping you gain clarity on the path(s) you want to explore. This session will guide you in shaping characters and expressions of your dominant self, allowing you to refine and embody your unique leadership style. Caritia will guide participants...
We are often taught that anger and fear are emotions to suppress. Too much. Too loud. Too inconvenient. We are encouraged to manage them, soften them, or hide them altogether. At the same time, anger and fear are frequently used as tools of control—shaping behaviour, enforcing obedience, and maintaining hierarchy. What if these emotions are...
Curious about thuddy pain and deep impact play? Deep Impact is a 2-hour online learning space for learning the fundamentals of using your body to play with blunt impact. We work in a light and fun, beginner friendly, and consent-forward way to get through the safety and technique of kicking and punching for funsies. Whether...
Kink is Political: Work
In recognition of International Workers' Day, our May session will be about the concept of “work.” Pushing against cultural norms within BDSM and kink scenes that have historically been structured to distance BDSM and kink from sex work, we’ll inquire what it means to understand what we do within the context of work. Along the...
Play is not an escape from seriousness — it’s a powerful way of engaging with it. Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, play is where curiosity, communication, and connection come alive. When approached with intention, play becomes more than experimentation — it becomes a tool for resilience, creativity, and deeper relational...
Kink Explained: Power Exchange
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of power exchange and power dynamics within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. What we’ll cover Basic definitions of power and power exchange in kink Different ways of playing with power from this framing,...
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...













