Explore shame play in a self-reflective and trauma aware way. Whether you are taking your first steps or already have experience, this workshop will give you something to play with. We will do some writing and conversations to define what we want to work on and what is off limits. Ceci will share some easy ways to...
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Welcome to the elemental lab, adventurer. In this session, you’ll level up from curious novice to confident Pyromancer through a series of guided experiments designed to awaken your inner fire mage. Think less lecture, more spellcasting trial. Or practically speaking: this is a space for exploring fire and wax play with guidance from Ceci Ferox. We...
Pointy, Scratchy, Pokey Oooo
There are a plethora of stories and warnings about not playing with sharp objects; however, some of us live for the thrills and giggles ;) Let's explore what Sharps Play is about. Curious about tools that touch, pierce, and trace across the body with care? This 4-hour in-person workshop invites you to explore the art...
Pointy Pokey Jam
It's happening! The Pointy Oooo, Sharps Awww jam is here! Time to release the adrenaline and endorphines What is a Pointy Pokey jam? Pointy jams is an open space format. Part hangout, part play with other like-minded people who are into needles, staples and knives. Come and hang out and watch others or do some...
Ever wondered why the hottest kink scenes sizzle like a Hollywood thriller? It’s all about the drama, baby, the tension, the pacing, the delicious build-up. Ceci is here to spill the tea on crafting your very own red-hot BDSM sessions. Think of it this way: an unforgettable scene has the same backbone as an unforgettable...
Delightful Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” - Mamana Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided...
Follower’s Circle
This discussion and lab is intentionally created for folks who wish to lean into their follower side, aka submission, bottoming or assisting nature, who may be at the beginning of their journey or finding themselves at a crossroads. Caritia will hold space with reflection questions, practical exercises to support mapping experimentation, and activities to help...
Flogging as a kink practice can be approached in many ways. One of the most powerful ones is flogging as a ritual of release and renewal. In this session, Caritia invites you to join us for a flogging ritual. Together, we will prepare the ritual, its intentions, and desires. We will hold space for each...
Powerful Intentions
What happens when power is guided by intention? When leadership is rooted in clarity, consent, and a personal why? In this 3-hour play lab, participants are invited to explore how power dynamics and intention come together to shape meaningful, intentional play. Through guided inquiry, structured exercises, and reflective moments, we will examine how hierarchy, choice,...
CNC – Exploring Edges
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires that requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Kink & BDSM, What does it mean to us? This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating....
Kink is Political – Ambiguity
Kink is Political is an online discussion with Addie Tahl, Georg Barkas, Andrea Rimon, and occasional special guests. Participants are invited to join a discussion during which we unite critique with an emphasis on the practical and day-to-day issues and challenges of kink, intimacy, and relationships. Focusing on concepts central to BDSM, leather, rope, and...













