
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Release and Relax – Sound Experience
Let's create an intentionally restful space together. Caritia invites participants to spend two and a half hours in gentle sound relaxation. Together, we will set personal intentions for release and opening and then settle in for a mix of gongs, singing bowls and chimes to allow the sound resonances to soothe our body and mind....
Delightful Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” - Mamana Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided...
Follower’s Circle
This discussion and lab is intentionally created for folks who wish to lean into their follower side, aka submission, bottoming or assisting nature, who may be at the beginning of their journey or finding themselves at a crossroads. Caritia will hold space with reflection questions, practical exercises to support mapping experimentation, and activities to help...
Flogging as a Ritual
Flogging as a kink practice can be approached in many ways. One of the most powerful ones is flogging as a ritual of release and renewal. In this session, Caritia invites you to join us for a flogging ritual. Together, we will prepare the ritual, its intentions, and desires. We will hold space for each...
Powerful Intentions
What happens when power is guided by intention? When leadership is rooted in clarity, consent, and a personal why? In this 3-hour play lab, participants are invited to explore how power dynamics and intention come together to shape meaningful, intentional play. Through guided inquiry, structured exercises, and reflective moments, we will examine how hierarchy, choice,...
Ditch the blueprints and get creative! This class invites you to experiment with pace, rhythm, mood, and spontaneity. We’ll explore improvisation techniques, play with one-rope ties, and get inspired by wrapping, unwrapping, and re-wrapping bodies in intuitive ways. Rope Fundamentals Start here if you’re new to rope, want a solid foundation of shibari skills, or...
CNC – Exploring Edges
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires that requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
BIPOC Rope – Beginnings
This session is for folks who would love to dip their toes into rope and are unsure where to begin. The tying style will be Japanese-inspired, aka shibari, or kinbaku. Caritia will take participants through the basics, providing practical, hands-on guidance on the foundational principles of this rope style, sprinkling in a little history, physics,...
Kink & BDSM, What does it mean to us? This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating....
This online workshop is a BIPOC-only space, facilitated by a BIPOC rope practitioner, created for folks who want to deepen their rope skills and play with technique in a supportive learning environment. Participants should have a working knowledge of rope basics and feel comfortable with common rope terminology. Caritia will guide participants through building fluidity...
Kink and Neurodiversity
Intimate connections are often complex, tender, and beautifully messy. Each of us brings different ways of sensing, thinking, feeling, and communicating—and when those differences meet, misunderstanding can easily arise. When intimacy, touch, and desire enter the picture, this complexity can deepen even further. Within kink and erotic play, where communication, boundaries, and consent are central,...
Follow the Leader
Let's create an intentionally playful space together to explore power and power dynamics. Caritia invites participants to spend three hours in joyful exploration of boundaries, group formation, using verbal and non-verbal ways to discover (and rediscover) the art of leading and following. Together, we will set personal intentions for finding clarity in the ways each...













