Welcome to Rope for Nerds — the workshop series for rope brains who want to really understand what’s going on under the hood. In this first part, we will focus on modular thinking and frictions in constructing shibari ties. Ever wondered why certain ties just work—while others fall apart or feel awkward? Or how some...
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Communicating with Ropes
We can’t not communicate. But what does it mean to communicate? What do we communicate? What do we hide? And how does all of this work when we tie with each other. Communicating in ropes is not a soft skill but is inherently integrated in the practice itself. The question remains: How can we make...
Queer Rope Jam
It's queer rope jam time, babes! Once in a while you gotta do ropey stuff amongst other queers and just enjoy yourself. No posing, no being cool or extra good at doing ropey things needed. Come as you are, exhale and enjoy yourselves. What is a rope jam? Rope jams is an open space format....
Our senses are powerful gateways to pleasure, intimacy, emotion, and connection. In this workshop, we’ll dive into the rich world of sensory play—where touch, temperature, sound, smell, and taste become tools for discovery, delight, and creative expression. Through guided exercises, playful experiments, and a menu of sensations to try, you’ll learn how to both stimulate...
The Care Portal
So often, entering a kink space means stepping into the unknown. New desires, new dynamics, and new ways of relating can be both exhilarating and vulnerable. How do we create frameworks that allow desire to expand while remaining intentional, attentive, and deeply caring? In this workshop, Caritia invites participants to explore care as a creative...
Edge Play – Choking
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
Edge & Play: Erotic Rope Exploration
How can ropes awaken desire, tension, and playful challenge? The gag, the hair pulled back, the rope that tightens when you move. This class explores the erotic, teasing, mischievous side of rope. We'll play with the elements that heighten sensation and shift the charge between two people — gagging, hair restraint, crotch ropes, predicaments —...
Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks
Welcome to Cuddles, Cakes and Kinks, your monthly aftercare event to take a break from cisheteropatriarchy, capitalism, the burning world, or life in general. We’re here to rest so we can resist, to play as an antidote to pressure, and to let the people eat cake. Queer people, welcome! We are opening our wonderful house...
Agreements can be one of the most essential but equally difficult parts of open relationships. While finding agreements about how we want to relate to each other, which promises and expectations we bring into our relationship is part of almost every relationship, open relationships include the challenge of affecting and navigating new dates, lovers and...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
This is our experimental shibari playground for all skill levels. Each month explores a new topic — from shame and semenawa to performance, advanced movement, or the mythical “3rd rope” in TKs. We rotate between two themes, always bringing new inspiration to your rope practice. Open to all levels with foundational knowledge. Bring your curiosity,...
Can we just be real about the very real uncertainty and vulnerability that comes with holding space for someone else?! This is a class for anyone feeling unsure, anxious, or like they just keep fumbling their way through topping and not finding their flow- let's build more confidence by exploring ideas and trying tools and...













