Rope creates sensation and emotion. In this class, you’ll explore how body positions and spatial relationships affect the mood and headspace of your partner. Using simple ties, you’ll experiment with emotional intention in your rope. Rope Fundamentals Start here if you’re new to rope, want a solid foundation of shibari skills, or need to get...
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Archetypes and Inspiration is designed to bring more depth and nuance to your “Style of Leadership”, helping you gain clarity on the path(s) you want to explore. This session will guide you in shaping characters and expressions of your dominant self, allowing you to refine and embody your unique leadership style. Caritia will guide participants...
Opening up relationships can bring up a lot of emotions, it can be challenging and chaotic at times but also exciting. It is a great opportunity to become aware of what we appreciate and what we would like to change in our existing relationships. This two part series is designed for people who would like...
We are often taught that anger and fear are emotions to suppress. Too much. Too loud. Too inconvenient. We are encouraged to manage them, soften them, or hide them altogether. At the same time, anger and fear are frequently used as tools of control—shaping behaviour, enforcing obedience, and maintaining hierarchy. What if these emotions are...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Curious about thuddy pain and deep impact play? Deep Impact is a 3-hour online learning space for learning the fundamentals of using your body to play with blunt impact. We work in a light and fun, beginner friendly, and consent-forward way to get through the safety and technique of kicking and punching for funsies. Whether...
Rope in the Air: Torsion
Let’s twist things up. Use your choice of chest harness with a half mermaid tie to create spiraling shapes in the air. Learn how to lift and lower into torsion safely while paying close attention to balance and body tension. You will learn about lifting vs. lowering into suspension in the process. Rope in the...
Kink is Political: Work
In recognition of International Workers' Day, our May session will be about the concept of “work.” Pushing against cultural norms within BDSM and kink scenes that have historically been structured to distance BDSM and kink from sex work, we’ll inquire what it means to understand what we do within the context of work. Along the...
Play is not an escape from seriousness — it’s a powerful way of engaging with it. Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, play is where curiosity, communication, and connection come alive. When approached with intention, play becomes more than experimentation — it becomes a tool for resilience, creativity, and deeper relational...
Kink Explained: Power Exchange
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of power exchange and power dynamics within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. What we’ll cover Basic definitions of power and power exchange in kink Different ways of playing with power from this framing,...
Choking 101
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
The Fat Rope Hang
This is a space dedicated to everyone self-identifying as fat who’s into shibari or other types of rope bondage. We will luxuriate, rant, do rope, and just generally engage in revolutionary action. Together, we’ll center fat joy, fat bodies, and fat experience in rope — without apology and without shrinking ourselves. This gathering prioritizes comfort,...













