This is our experimental shibari playground for all skill levels. Each month explores a new topic — from shame and semenawa to performance, advanced movement, or the mythical “3rd rope” in TKs. We rotate between two themes, always bringing new inspiration to your rope practice. Open to all levels with foundational knowledge. Bring your curiosity,...
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Styles of Leadership is about discovering and exploring how you want to dominate and/or lead in a play or erotic context. Together, we’ll identify personal areas of interest and uncover the joy within different leadership styles. Do you already have the skills, or do they need to be developed? How can you acquire them? Let’s...
How to Plan an Orgy
If you want to host, organize and hold space for others to explore their sexuality, we made a workshop for you. Mel has 6 years of experience holding space and hosting events for the queer, kinky and neurodivergent, disabled community. Come with us to explore how to arrange the evening, where to put the condoms,...
SM Weekend: Pain Processing & Theory
This foundational workshop explores how pain is experienced and interpreted by the body and mind. Participants will examine the neurological pathways of pain, the role of adrenaline and endorphins, and the psychological components that shape sensation and meaning. The class provides a framework for understanding different types of impact and intensity while emphasizing consent, negotiation,...
SM Weekend: Spanking
This focused, hands-on workshop explores spanking as a versatile and nuanced form of impact play. Whether you’re refining your technique or building from the ground up, this class breaks down spanking into its core elements: body mechanics, rhythm, intensity, and emotional tone. The Sadomasochist Super Weekend This weekend offers an immersive and thoughtfully structured journey...
SM Weekend: Genital & Nipple Torment
This focused class centers on precision play involving highly sensitive anatomy. Participants will learn about nerve concentration, tissue vulnerability, and the importance of pacing and communication when working with genitals and nipples. Techniques for controlled torment, including genital impact (demonstrated with a model), will be discussed in a safety-forward and skill-based context. The workshop emphasizes...
This workshop explores intimate, close-range impact and marking techniques. Participants will learn how to deliver face slaps with control and accuracy, as well as how to incorporate biting and scratching in a way that prioritizes safety and consent. The class addresses positioning, force modulation, and the emotional intensity that accompanies this style of play. Emphasis...
This class focuses on delivering controlled, force-based impact using kicks and punches. Participants will learn how to align their bodies for stability and precision while targeting muscle groups more suited to absorb deeper sensation. The workshop examines how to generate thuddy impact without compromising safety, and how to build endurance within a scene. Attention is...
SM Weekend: Caning and Flogging
This combined workshop examines the contrast and interplay between the sharp precision of caning and the rhythmic flow of flogging. Participants will explore how each tool creates distinct sensations and how to handle them with accuracy and control. The class covers strike placement, pacing, and skin response management, as well as the development of rhythm...
SM Weekend: Wax Play
This workshop explores heat as a form of sensation play, focusing on technique, temperature control, and creative application. Participants will learn how different candle types and drip heights affect sensation, as well as how to test and monitor heat safely. The class emphasizes preparation, placement, and skin care before and after play. Wax is presented...
SM Weekend: Painful Rope
This workshop examines the use of rope specifically to create intentional discomfort and heightened sensation. Participants will explore how placement, tension, and positioning can increase intensity while maintaining circulation safety. The class discusses how restrictive elements can amplify psychological and physical experiences, particularly when combined with impact. Emphasis is placed on careful monitoring, clear communication,...
BIPOC Utopias – Power Exchange
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...













