Sometimes the word “brat” is used as a dirty word when it comes to kink play. A common misconception is that submissives and bottoms should be quiet and meditative during their experience. Bratting can also be an excellent way to add energy to a scene, make things entertaining for an audience, or even communicate...
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The power of breath is unmeasurable and powerful. Caritia invites you to explore breath play and/or breathwork all framed around intention and the energy you wish to create, either for yourself or with another person. Participants will explore risk, control, styles of communication, and time all centered around the breath. In this workshop, we will...
With the societal models and the many destructive examples of domination, it can be a struggle to find the desire and erotism in power play. How do you embrace intentional and consensual power hierarchies? What does it mean to be dominant from a decolonized, deconstructed, dynamic play perspective? Join Caritia for this 2.5-hour workshop which...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning Japanese-inspired rope bondage within a closed group setting. This weekend intensive course is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever and gives more structure and time to learn than our drop-in classes. Gestalta will be your guide and teacher and will encourage you...
Rope can be a wonderful tool for spicing up your sex life, and in today’s class, we will learn to apply crotch ropes for a variety of shapes and layouts of bodies. Assumptions that all people who wear ropes in this area of the body want them tied in the same way are false, and...
This is a workshop for understanding how to create self-suspended twisted shapes, where the upper and lower body are pointing in different directions. Torsions challenge the body in different ways: breath restriction, stretching that calls the body to relax, and the sense of being frozen in the middle of the movement. These are also the...
Engaging with participants and students, Caritia has been asked questions about the interrelations of kink, altered states, spirituality, and trauma. What is an altered state? Can kink support or give space to dealing with challenges in your life? There is so much curiosity around chemical highs, so-called "natural" highs, and changed states of being, let’s...
This retreat is perfect for all self-tying lovers new or experienced. Maybe you find it hard to make time for tying or maybe you just want more rope experiences in a safer, facilitated bubble. This day of self-tying will offer you opportunities for connecting with yourself, practising your skills, and sharing with others. Ceci will...
You have done some tying on the floor and are ready to dive deep into the geekery. Or you want to polish your technical skills further. In this workshop, we will dive deep into the frictions for tying on the floor. We will practice using counter tension, the direction changer/half hitch, and the munter hitch....
In May we learned about the vulva and pleasure, now we take a deep dive into the vagina. How does it work and how do we give and get pleasure with vaginas? We will get nerdy about vaginas and explore their anatomy and origin. We will talk about expectations and scripts to overthrow vagina myths....
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires which requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Small rigger or larger model? "Tying Larger Bodies" is a specific class with universal knowledge and framework oriented to help smaller riggers tying anyone bigger and larger than themselves and for rope models who are larger and bigger than their rigger. Pauline Massimo & Mabel will share lots of fundamental knowledge and technical skills that...













