This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires that requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Sensation play comes in many delicious forms. Wax play being one that falls in the fiery hot spectrum of these. In this workshop Caritia aims to guide participants through the layered and inter-changeable journey wax play, including the different types of candle, safety dos and don’ts as well as the different ways removal, as this...
Have you ever wanted to be in a space where you could learn the basics about kink play, but didn’t have a clue where to go? We got you covered! Ceci & Caritia are joining forces to create your ultimate kink play boot camp. Explore, co-create and expand your horizons on the topics of your...
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Welcome to the world of rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being tied. We...
Welcome to the world of rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being tied. We...
Welcome to a three-day journey of play and connection over the easter weekend. We will guide you from releasing to grounding to building fertile energy. Each of the 3 days consists of a thoughtful warm-up, shared lunch, and a play party. You can buy a ticket for the whole weekend or individual days. Friday: Cleansing...
Let's create an intentionally restful space together. Caritia invites participants to spend two and a half hours in gentle sound relaxation. Together, we will set personal intentions for release and opening and then settle in for a mix of gongs, singing bowls and chimes to allow the sound resonances to soothe our body and mind....
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness and care. Caritia (Kink Coach) and Montserrat “La Cabra”...
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Delving into Dominance is a weekend-long exploration that can includes five parts: Map of Me (Friday), Boundaries and Negotiation (Saturday), Styles of Leadership (Saturday), Archetypes and Inspiration (Sunday) and Discovering your Dominance (Sunday): Caritia invites you to shape your own learning experience. You can join for just one or two sessions or take a deep...











