Ceci Ferox
Ceci is a queer, non-binary, and fat sexologist. They are a huge sex nerd with a special interest in shibari and have been teaching bondage and BDSM for 10 years. At Karada House, Ceci facilitates workshops, does sex and couples therapy, and supports strategic and day-to-day admin work. They also regularly take on the role of official house awkward and can be found doing weird little dances in the kitchen.
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What is rope all about? Is it the feeling of being captured or the touch of rope on skin? Is it aesthetics and beauty? Or emotion and connection, a way to create a bubble? Is shibari about nerding out on ties and the rope we make them with? Come to this workshop to find out...
Tying without patterns is a good way to learn about tension, frictions, and placement of rope. Freestyling, going back to basics, and breaking rules will help you understand the material you are working with. It will also free your mind for play. Unpredictability might help access deeper levels of connection. In this workshop, we will...
Building a connected and impactful BDSM session might sometimes feel like alchemy and mystic telepathic powers. It’s not. It is actually built on very concrete techniques that you can learn, practice, and become good at. This workshop explores how to create connection and intensity in kink play. Ceci will talk about bodies, connective techniques, and...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning rope bondage (shibari/kinbaku), based on Japanese-inspired rope bondage. This class is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever. We recommend visiting it 2-3 times until you have accumulated muscle memory and then join our beginner class to go further. Important Note: Please arrive...
Are you tired of feeling like your body doesn’t fit the narrow imagery of bondage? So are we. This is a rope jam for people who dress in sizes 44 and up. Because we want a space that celebrates the fact that not only can all of us tie and be tied, but we look...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning rope bondage (shibari/kinbaku), based on Japanese-inspired rope bondage. This class is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever. We recommend visiting it 2-3 times until you have accumulated muscle memory and then join our beginner class to go further. Important Note: Please arrive...
The hishi (diamond) pattern is not only pretty but also functional. It doesn't divide the body with vertical lines, but diagonally, which makes the tie adjust to the body better and divides the pressure of the ropes more evenly on the whole tie. In this workshop, we will learn two hishi variations by tying upper...
Join this facilitated peer support conversation for BDSM tops to share your challenges, problems, mistakes, and successes. Here you can get ideas, support, and perspectives from other people in a confidential and safer online space. Cecis is a sex therapist and long-time BDSM practitioner (top-leaning switch) who will hold space for you and the conversation...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning rope bondage (shibari/kinbaku), based on Japanese-inspired rope bondage. This class is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever. We recommend visiting it 2-3 times until you have accumulated muscle memory and then join our beginner class to go further. Important Note: Please arrive...
You know some basics, you can tie the single column tie and can get someone tied up pretty decently. What now? This workshop will give you the tools to take your rope play a step further. We will explore our motivations for tying and getting tied to focus our energy on what really matters to...
You have done some tying on the floor and are ready to dive deep into the geekery. Or you want to polish your technical skills further. In this workshop, we will dive deep into the frictions for tying on the floor. We will practice using counter tension, the direction changer/half hitch, and the munter hitch....
You have solid skills at floor-based tying. You want to understand more about what’s important for secure suspendable structures. In this workshop, we will learn what kind of basic structures form most suspendable harnesses (wraps, stems, cinches) and the basic frictions used for them (munter hitch variations, X-friction, L-friction, half-moon). We will learn about placing...











