Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Impactful
Impact play is more than, skin, muscle and bones, it's far more than hitting yourself or another person. It is a practice of many layers and dimensions. Join Caritia and be led by your curiosity, shared knowledge and playfulness. Exploring the thuddy to the stingy with intention and focus on the nuances of impact play....
Breath Play 101
The power of breath is unmeasurable and powerful. In this one day in-person workshop participants are invited to explore breath play from an intentional and boundaried perspective, the inter-play of control and trust. Caritia will offer/demonstrate 4-5 different breath play techniques, leaving time for participants to play solo or with others. The day will be...
Delicious Little Pressure Points
“Pressure points are the lazy dom(mes) and sadists' very best friends.” Get ready for the most fun anatomy lesson you never knew you needed, whilst simultaneously diving into intriguing sensation exploration. A Karada House favourite requiring minimal extras and that can be explored solo, or with other(s). Caritia invites participants to this guided hands-on workshop...
Queer Fall Rituals
As queer people, we often move through life without having access, time or the headspace for communal rituals that mark change, growth, or seasonal transition. Queer Fall Rituals is an intimate, queers only, space to reclaim that. Over three days, we’ll honor the Autumn Equinox by moving through the sacred themes of abundance, death, and...
Harvest season is upon us and after the heat of the summer, we are moving into fall. In this 1-day playshop Caritia will you guide through the luscious abundance of queer and kinky joy and play. While the world at large is working under the guise of constant scarcity, we will expand ourselves, our...
Follow the Leader
Let's create an intentionally playful space together to explore power and power dynamics. Caritia invites participants to spend three hours in joyful exploration of boundaries, group formation, using verbal and non-verbal ways to discover (and rediscover) the art of leading and following. Together, we will set personal intentions for finding clarity in the ways each...
BIPOC Utopias – Kink & Intimacy
For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy, capitalism, classism and racism. In an effort to change the narrative, Caritia wishes to offer a monthly gathering of BIPOC to...
Rope for Absolute Beginners
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Release & Relax – Sound Meditation
Let's create an intentionally restful space together. Caritia invites participants to spend two and a half hours in gentle sound relaxation. Together, we will set personal intentions for release and opening and then settle in for a mix of gongs, singing bowls and chimes to allow the sound resonances to soothe our body and mind....
As humans living in these bodies, we hold many possibilities to explore creatively, yet how often do we do so? Especially as adults. Let's be a little sadistic, a little bratty and very playful. Participants are invited to spend 3-hours in play with their senses - sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. Through intentional games...
Let the Cards Decide
Join this guided rope play ritual. The premiss is simple, three tarot cards will be selected from the Robert M Place 'The Alchemical Tarot' whose imagery was inspired by the work of Pamala Colman Smith (1878-1951). Be inspired to tie by what moves you within the cards. Each constellation of people can choose one aspect...












