Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Lovers and explorers of feet as a fetish or specific body part to love, worship, and service – this workshop is for you! Caritia invites participants to get more curious, open up the doors of desire, and join this workshop to explore the fantastical sphere of feet. Let's create happy feet together. You can participate...
This class is 2 in 1: great knowledge and nerdery around rope maintenance AND a class for your mental health. Caritia will guide you slowly through ways you can maintain your ropes and use the handiwork of rope maintenance as a ritual and meditation for yourself. Smooth ropes, support your mental & emotional well-being....
Our intimate connections can be a mixture of complex, delightful messiness that each one can find a challenging prospect to walk through. Add to that the multiplicity of how each individual processes through your senses, minds, and emotions, the potential for misunderstanding is vast. When intimacy, touch, and desire are added to that already...
Join us to walk your very first steps in learning Japanese-inspired rope bondage within a closed group setting. This 5-week-course is designed for absolute beginners with no prior knowledge whatsoever and gives more structure and time to learn than our drop-in classes. Each week Caritia will encourage you to develop your skills, ground yourself in...
How do shame and guilt manifest for you in your everyday life? What strategies can you embrace to address the heavy and serious topic of trauma? Can kink offer intentional containers with boundaries as support for releasing these energies that block and stifle our potential to relate in different and playful ways? Caritia invites participants...
Spring is upon us once again and cycles of birth have begun, well for some at least. The overwhelming changes that continue to haunt us this past 2+ years with the pandemic, the loss of life, changes of government, and now a war - have taken their toll on our being as a whole. Our...
Consensual non-consent is a form of play that is based on a mutual agreement between play partners to act as if consent has been waived. This form of play is a complex web of thoughts, ideas, and desires which requires a delicate balance of boundaries and communicated needs to navigate what can be deliciously troubled...
Kink and intersectionality are topics that are often spoken about separate from each other or on a more theoretical basis while trying to understand systemic oppression. Only rarely is the opportunity given to go into the nuance of the idea of how intersectionality affects our kinks and vice versa. Caritia aims to offer space for...
Kink and rope are wonderful ways in which we can connect with ourselves in solo play or with others. But part of playing not only in a safe(r) but also more effective way is knowing your way around the body. How much do you know about your own body? Its. movements, its anatomy, and how it...
Let's give ourselves permission to let go of tension, stress, anxiety, sadness, anger, and fear and embrace relaxation, self-care, change, creativity and expansion. Caritia invites participants to explore the dimensions of self-expression and kink in this workshop, where rituals of release will be interlaced with the creative connection. Spontaneous individualized rituals will be formed through...
There are times when it simply doesn't work to sit on the floor or to stand to tie. Tying with, on, and to a chair has many playful advantages. In this workshop, Caritia will aim to introduce participants to the joy of combining comfort and stress when tying. Event Details Date & Time: May...
This hands-on workshop will offer simple techniques using rope to calm, soothe, and bring yourself or another person back into their body, to ground and center. Caritia will invite participants to seek practical ways to return to their bodies when a challenge or trigger arises using rope combined with other props and suggestions. No previous...













