Yes, please / No Thanks - Giving Consent, Holding Boundaries

12dec19:0021:30Yes, please / No Thanks - Giving Consent, Holding BoundariesEvent OverIn-House Event19:00 - 21:30 FacilitatorCaritiaCategorykink

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Let’s be playful with consent 🙂

The general idea of consent and boundaries is often portrayed to be as simple as offering someone a cup of tea. However, in reality, it is much more nuanced and complicated, especially when taking our intersectionalities, different contexts, and power structures into consideration. And then what?

Caritia will guide and support participants in solo, paired, and group exercises to get to grips with what consent means to you, how it can be applied in everyday situations, and the mindsets that can open you up to more playful interactions with others. Let’s dive in, get messy, and acknowledge the dimensions.

The aim of the workshop is to get to know yourself and your boundaries more deeply.


Event Details

Date & Time:  December 12th 2023, 7-9.30 pm

Format: workshop

Audience:  LGBTQIA+ & Friends

Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: paper, pen, questions, and stories

What to Bring:  Comfortable clothing, questions, curiosity, pen, and paper.

Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome, everybody needs a ticket


Safety Concept & Regulation

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Accessibility Note

The workshop is held in spoken English. The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance, please message us at beforehand.


Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.

Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.




About Caritia: lives as an LGBTQAI+, gender-fluid, BiPoC (assigned female at birth) individual. Walking a path with invisible disabilities and the living challenges which accompany that life. Educator, creative and ongoing work in process, whose advocacy for establishing boundaries is as strong as the desire to love with truth and honesty. On a quiet mission to destigmatise difference and return power to each individual. Using the language of kink to the point of geeky excitement. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing too deeply ‘listen’ to (her) body holistically, from the inside out.

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