Negotiating Kink Relationships with the BDSM Smorgasbord

20jun19:0021:30Negotiating Kink Relationships with the BDSM SmorgasbordLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverVirtual Event19:00 - 21:30 FacilitatorCeci Ferox (they/them)Categorymeta


(Tuesday) 19:00 - 21:30





Event Details

Welcome to the launch of the BDSM smorgasbord by Ceci Ferox. The BDSM smorgasbord is a tool that helps you negotiate your kink based or flavored relationships. It is not only a map of kinks or a yes-no-maybe list, but it helps you ask the right questions to also navigate the emotional, relational and social aspects of your dynamic. The smorgasbord is useful in relationships from platonic to romantic, casual to 24/7, and switchy playful to hardcore power exchange.

Join this workshop to not only get your (virtual) hands on this hot new paper, but also for a tour of kinky relating.


Event Details

Date & Time:  June 20th, 2023, 7-9.30 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: discussion (virtual)


Language: English

Knowledge level: ability to recognize and name your emotions, understanding of your cultural background and privileges

What to bring: pen & paper

Class recording: yes, will be available for 14 days to the participants of the conference


Accessibility Note

The workshop and discussion are held in spoken English with automated captions in English which are provided by Zoom. Communication within the class can be had via chat but also people can come on mic and speak. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance, i.e. someone reading out the chat, etc, please message us at beforehand.


Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.

Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.

If you cannot afford the ticket price (even the solidarity price), please send us a message. We will find a way.


Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci Ferox is a Berlin-based sex therapist, kink activist, and rope teacher originally from Finland. Safer spaces and empowerment through quality education are important for them.

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