December, 2021

05dec14:0017:00Event OverVirtual EventKink and Neurodivergence14:00 - 17:00(GMT+01:00) View in my time Facilitator: Caritia Category:kinkFormat:workshop,discussion,research lab


Caritiais a Berlin based, British born queer womxn of colour whose creativity runs through connection to energies, ritual and


(Sunday) 14:00 - 17:00(GMT+01:00) View in my time



Event Details

Our intimate connections can be a mixture of complex, delightful messiness that each one can find a challenging prospect to walk through. Add to that the multiplicity of how each individual processes through your senses, minds and emotions, the potential for misunderstanding is vast. When intimacy, touch and desire are added to that already heady mix is it any wonder that things become confusing.

Why is it vital to speak and share ideas about neurodivergence/ neurominority people within the context of kink and intimacy in general? How can more supportive paths be found to support the curiosity of intimacy and connection?

In this open discussion and lab, Caritia aims to open up a personal and collective conversation about the topics of kink and neurodivergence, inviting participants to actively dialogue and share their experiences around this complex topic. And in doing so explore ways in which the nuance and messiness can be brought to bear as part of a utopia of sharing space with each other.

Note: This is an alive and ongoing process of learning, it is not intended to be a ‘fits in a box’ idea or concept.

Who is this for:

This workshop has been derived for a variety of folx: New folx to kink. Minimal experience folx. Highly experienced folx. Curious and interested in learning more about yourselves folx. People with neurodivergence and those without. Folx with partners/intimates/connections who are neuro & non-neuro who are interested in kink.

Event Details

Date & Time: December 5th, 2021, 2pm-5pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: discussion & lab


Language: English


Minimum Knowledge Level: N/A


Concepts/offers for discussion

– meditation/intro

–  what is neurodivergency? broad-spectrum

– what to consider? intersectionality, boundaries, negotiation and care

– language(s), perspective(s), intention(s)

– opening to difference and the space that needs

– formats will include self-reflection, small groups, big group

– gentle embodiment practice throughout the 3 hours (including a short break)

– open freeform space for free association (if it proves to be supportive of the group)

– Feedback and close


What to bring: Questions, stories, active suggestions, compassion and an open heart

Everyone must purchase a ticket no matter your constellation

Accessibility information:

• Automated Zoom captions will be turned on.
• The presentation will always have a minimum of 18pt font.

Class recording: Yes. The session will be recorded and available for 14 days after the workshop. The participants will not be recorded.


About Caritia: lives in a queer, gender-fluid, BiPoC (assigned female at birth) body. Walks a path with invisible disabilities and the living challenges which accompany that life. Educator, creative and ongoing work in process, whose advocacy for establishing boundaries is as strong as the desire to love with truth and honesty. On a quiet mission to destigmatise difference and return power to each individual. Using the language of kink to the point of geeky excitement.


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