Choking 101

25may10:3017:30Choking 101LGBTQIA+ & FriendsIn-House Event10:30 - 17:30 FacilitatorCaritiaMontserrat "La Cabra!" (they(them)Categorykink



Event Details

What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness and care.

Caritia (Kink Coach) and Montserrat “La Cabra” (MMA champ) invite participants on a journey of self and other discovery. To understand both the hazards and playfulness of choking, in this safe(r) container.


Event Details

Date & Time:  May 25th, 2024, 10.30 am – 5.30 pm

Format: Workshop

Audience:  LGBTQIA+ & Friends

Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level:

What to Bring: comfortable clothing,

Solo or Partnered: partnered, ticket price is per pair


What we will explore:

Body movement and handling
Health & Safety
Non-verbal communications
Risk assessment & profile
Breath play vs choking
Space Holding


Safety Concept & Regulation

Please consult our safety concept and regulations for this event here.


Accessibility Note

The workshop is held in spoken English. The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance please message us at beforehand.


Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.

Friends describes people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer safe(r) space and its marginalized community.

When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone’s self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people’s chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender straight privileges.

Friends don’t have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all pro-actively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.


What else to know

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About Caritia: lives as an LGBTQAI+, gender-fluid, BiPoC (assigned female at birth) individual. Walking a path with invisible disabilities and the living challenges which accompany that life. Educator, creative and ongoing work in process, whose advocacy for establishing boundaries is as strong as the desire to love with truth and honesty. On a quiet mission to destigmatise difference and return power to each individual. Using the language of kink to the point of geeky excitement. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing too deeply ‘listen’ to (her) body holistically, from the inside out.

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Montserrat "La Cabra!" (they(them)

Montserrat "La Cabra" is an ex-professional MMA fighter from Mexico City with a background in Catch Wrestling (catch as catch can) and BJJ (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu) and experience in teaching MMA and Self Defense. Montserrat likes using my knowledge in control and submission technics and pressure points to add extra fun to Playfight & Rough Body Play

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