Approaches to Oral Sex

03apr20:0022:00Approaches to Oral SexLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverVirtual Event20:00 - 22:00 FacilitatorLee Harrington (he/him)Categorykink


(Monday) 20:00 - 22:00





Event Details

People engage in oral sex for so many reasons… but how do we get our desires met and explore with partners? Whether you are new, or a seasoned fan looking for new ideas, this class works beyond the belief that one size fits all – let’s make this type of play the right fit for you!

Deemed illegal or immoral in some cultures while seen as commonplace or a cultural norm in others, oral to genital stimulation is a tool for erotic expression that has many techniques to explore. Whether you see it as “third base” or “the most intimate type of passion,” let us explore the double (or triple) standards based on gender and genital configuration (from diverse cisgender male and female to trans and intersex bodies), and the medical realities present in this sort of play. Each of us has favorite skills and approaches too, so we will share descriptions of skills with each other (no live demonstration or nudity during the discussion, though props will be shown), talk about diverse anatomy and interests, and dive into our passions (and turn-offs) concerning this sort of sexual activity.


Event Details

Date & Time:  April 3rd, 2023, 8-10 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: hands-on workshop


Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: Beginner, with new opportunities for ideas you may not have been exposed to before for intermediate to advanced explorers.

What to Bring: A sense of humor and a loving heart. Optional: a way to clean your hands, a towel to wipe off your hands, and a nitrile glove to cover your hands for when we practice on our own hands (or that of a partner if attending in a relationship)

Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome, everybody needs a ticket

Class recording: Yes. This class will be recorded (only the facilitator, not the participants) and is available for ticket holders for 14 days after the event


What we will teach

-Discuss the wide array of why people engage in oral sex

-Look at the vast array of anatomy for varieties of genitals

-Examine safer sex technologies and personal sexual risk profiles

-Consider turn-offs, and trauma around, oral sex

-Develop systems for discussing what we want and how we discuss our bodies

-Learn skills for hands, mouths, and brains-on techniques


What else to know

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Lee Harrington (he/him)

Lee Harrington (he/him) is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist, and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith, and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at

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