How vocal is your sex? When it comes to using voice in erotic contexts, we are often stuck between the silence imposed by a culture of shame and the cliches imposed by normative pornography. In this workshop, we will work chorally towards more creative and playful uses of sounds and voices to connect to ourselves...
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An evening together for all trans, non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid, or people who are searching. We are happy to be screening the award-winning ORLANDO, MY POLITICAL BIOGRAPHY by Paul B. Preciado. As special guests and leading through the evening, we will welcome Vanasay Khamphommala, one of the protagonists of the film. We have also invited Alexander...
Kisses come in a dizzying variety of shapes and intentions, yet mainstream culture tends to invisibilize some to the benefit of others. In this workshop, we will focus on our kissing culture and explore alternative ways to kiss and connect. Note: Contact will be negotiated and is optional, but will be strongly encouraged. Exchanges of...
We are opening our new and wonderful house and garden for the afternoon so you can come by, relax and calm down amongst other queer people. There will be hammocks and little areas for cuddling and enjoying touch. Get or gives massages. Touch grass (literally and metaphorically). Or hang out in the kitchen with us...
Welcome to the world of rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being tied. We...
Want to learn about the superpowers of fat bodies in rope? Join this class to learn how to use the strengths of soft and heavy bodies for kick-ass suspensions. We will find answers to questions on tension, placement, body handling, and geometrics. We’ll figure out how to plan suspension positions and sequences in a way...
This bi-weekly intermediate open rope training is directed at building on what has been taught in the Beginner Open Rope Training. Please note that the classes will be taught in different styles from this level onwards. We start the class intuitively by following individual impulses with rope. After that, the main part of the evening...
This workshop series is for people who hold sex-positive spaces and wish to learn more in-depth how to ground in awareness of power, intersectionality, consent, conflict transformation, and trauma-informed approaches. Many of us have come to hold space for sex-positive activities more or less by accident. We quickly realize that the intersections we hold are...
We have been “playing pretend” since we were young, but some of our fantasies are dark, scary, or challenging to face. Let’s dive into the shadowy realms of taboo passion and desire. Join us as we explore the shadowy realms of our fantasies and roles we can try on abduction, abuse, torture, snuff, fantastical realms,...
IT'S ROPE JAM TIME! Rope Jams are spaces to meet people who love to tie or be tied (or both) and/or bring your tying partner(s) to have a wonderful session together in a space with like-minded people. All roles, levels, styles, etc. are welcome. In the last hour of the jam, we will lower...
Delve into the world of chastity play and locking away penises — a blend of power dynamics and psychological mind play. Chastity play has surged in popularity within the kink community, and for good reason. As we navigate the intricacies of this kink, it becomes evident that chastity play is more than just locking away...
Trauma and kink are deeply embedded in each other. All kinds of power dynamics we play with either reflect oppression and violence or turn them around to subvert what we have to live with. This is where transformation begins. This workshop is about creating enough safety within our group so we can actually negotiate...













