This is our experimental shibari playground for all skill levels. Each month explores a new topic — from shame and semenawa to performance, advanced movement, or the mythical “3rd rope”...
Events
Styles of Leadership is about discovering and exploring how you want to dominate and/or lead in a play or erotic context. Together, we’ll identify personal areas of interest and uncover...
How to Plan an Orgy
If you want to host, organize and hold space for others to explore their sexuality, we made a workshop for you. Mel has 6 years of experience holding space and...
SM Weekend: Pain Processing & Theory
This foundational workshop explores how pain is experienced and interpreted by the body and mind. Participants will examine the neurological pathways of pain, the role of adrenaline and endorphins, and...
SM Weekend: Spanking
This focused, hands-on workshop explores spanking as a versatile and nuanced form of impact play. Whether you’re refining your technique or building from the ground up, this class breaks down...
SM Weekend: Genital & Nipple Torment
This focused class centers on precision play involving highly sensitive anatomy. Participants will learn about nerve concentration, tissue vulnerability, and the importance of pacing and communication when working with genitals...
This workshop explores intimate, close-range impact and marking techniques. Participants will learn how to deliver face slaps with control and accuracy, as well as how to incorporate biting and scratching...
This class focuses on delivering controlled, force-based impact using kicks and punches. Participants will learn how to align their bodies for stability and precision while targeting muscle groups more suited...
SM Weekend: Caning and Flogging
This combined workshop examines the contrast and interplay between the sharp precision of caning and the rhythmic flow of flogging. Participants will explore how each tool creates distinct sensations and...
SM Weekend: Wax Play
This workshop explores heat as a form of sensation play, focusing on technique, temperature control, and creative application. Participants will learn how different candle types and drip heights affect sensation,...
SM Weekend: Painful Rope
This workshop examines the use of rope specifically to create intentional discomfort and heightened sensation. Participants will explore how placement, tension, and positioning can increase intensity while maintaining circulation safety....
BIPOC Utopias – Power Exchange
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing...













