


Quick Info
- When:
- 17. April 2026, 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
- Where:
- KARA
- Format:
- lecture
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+ & Friends
- Constellation:
- solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
- Language:
- English
- What to bring:
- Pen & paper
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of pain and punishment within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice.
Join sex therapist Ceci Ferox for a clear introduction to how pain and punishment are commonly used and understood in kink contexts. We’ll cover core definitions, why people are into these practices, how they’re related to other parts of BDSM, and look at the roles of consent, power, and intention. The emphasis is on building shared understanding and giving you practical language for reflecting on and talking about these dynamics.
There will be no demonstrations, physical exercises, or role play. Participation is optional and discussion-based.
What we’ll cover
- Basic definitions of pain and punishment in kink
- Different ways of playing with pain and punishment, including their connection to other BDSM practices
- Power dynamics, intention, and consent
- Common frameworks for negotiating pain and punishment
- Language and concepts for clear communication
Who this workshop is for
- People new to kink looking for a solid theoretical foundation
- Kinky folks wanting a structured basics refresher
- Anyone starting to explore pain or punishment dynamics
- Those who prefer a non-sexual, discussion-based learning environment
No prior experience required.
Facilitator

More Information
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
Friends describe people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer space and its marginalized community.
When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone's self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people's chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender-straight privileges.
Friends don't have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all proactively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.
- Ground floor location with 3 steps at the entrance – a wheelchair ramp is always available
- A bell on ground level for people who need support with the stairs is available
- Accessible bathroom and no thresholds throughout the space
- Parking directly in front (please message if you want to use the spot)
- Chair seating, cushions, mats, couches available
- Fidget toys, visual clocks, quiet areas to retreat to available
- Psychological first aid tools available
- Workshop is held in spoken English, German available upon request
- Karada House is a sober space
- Please do not wear perfume
- Need more support? Message us at info@karada-house.de
- Please do not attend if you are feeling sick.
- The indoor areas will be constantly aired and two HEPA-14 filters will be running the entire time. We also have outdoor areas that are open during warmer days when it is not raining.
- We provide hand and surface disinfectant, please make ample use of it.
- All appliances, surfaces, blankets, etc. will be disinfected on a regular basis and before and after every class. Blankets, towels, etc. will be washed after every use.
- For workshops that require a partner, we encourage you to bring a person from your household, safe(r) Covid-19-bubble, etc. Working with someone you do not know is possible but at your own risk.
- We reserve the right to carry out mandatory Covid tests for large events. In case of testing positive you cannot enter the event and we need to ask you to leave for the sake of safety for the other participants.




