


Quick Info
- When:
- 3. October 2025, 12:00 pm – 9:00 pm, 5. October 2025, 12:00 pm – 9:00 pm
- Where:
- KARA
- Format:
- retreat
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+, only
- Constellation:
- solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
- Language:
- English
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
As queer people, we often move through life without having access, time or the headspace for communal rituals that mark change, growth, or seasonal transition. Queer Fall Rituals is an intimate, queers only, space to reclaim that. Over three days, we’ll honor the Autumn Equinox by moving through the sacred themes of abundance, death, and hibernation—mirroring the earth’s turning inward.
Each day has a specific theme:
- Friday: Abundance through Group Play (orgy)
- Saturday: Death through Kink Rituals (BDSM)
- Sunday: Hibernation through creature creation and sound (cuddles)
Each day offers:
✨ Workshopping the day’s themes together – learning skills and making plans
🍲 A shared communal lunch
🎭 A playful, nourishing play party
This gathering is a space for queer, kinky bodies and queer, kinky hearts to connect, release, and prepare for the descent into winter—together
Event Details
Date & Time: Oct 3rd-5th, 2025, 12 pm – 9 pm
Format: retreat
Audience: LGBTQIA+
Language: English
Solo or Partnered: all constellations welcome
Price: price is per person
Friday, October 3rd: Abundance – a harvest bacchanal
Friday:
The first day of the weekend is all about enjoying the abundance of the harvest season. In groups, we will enjoy ourselves, each other, and all our senses. During the day Caritia and Ceci will guide you towards comfort and intimacy. After lunch, we’ll throw an orgy for all your senses.
Friday is all about exploration in bigger constellations, everything from cute cuddles and soft massages to kink play and fierce fucking.
What to bring: anything you need for an orgy: toys, a towel, rope, clothes you look hot in, your favorite lube, massage oil, mouthwash… use your imagination!
Minimum Knowledge Level: none
Schedule:
12-15.30 Group exploration and connection play
15.30-17 Shared lunch (included in the ticket)
17-21 Orgy-esque play party
Saturday, October 4th: Death through Kink Rituals
After the abundance of the harvest, we will give our all through BDSM rituals and suffering. We design our own metaphorical deaths to get ready for the dark season.
During the day, Caritia and Ceci will guide in finding enduring, slow intensity, and designing your own rites. In the play party we execute your plans and form a choir of moans, slaps, and whimpers.
What to bring: all kink toys your heart desires
Minimum Knowledge Level: none
Schedule:
12-15.30 Exploring predicament ties (no previous rope experience required), intention setting, creating kink rituals
15.30-17 Shared lunch …. (included in the ticket)
17-21 Kink play party
Sunday, October 5th: Hibernation of the beasts
Darkness has fallen and it’s time to get cozy. On this last day of the weekend, we’ll get ready for rest through softness and cuddles. The bears are ready to hibernate, birds are setting off to warmer climates, and the cats are having their last playful frolics.
The day will guide you towards stillness through meditation, and playfulness through letting out your inner creature. We will let go of being serious adults and explore softer ways to be in our bodies. The play party will be all about oxytocin, touch, and chill. We’ll create cozy nests and explore the darkness.
What to bring: any sensory play toys or objects: blindfolds, earplugs, headphones, leather gloves, kink toys, rope, D/s and s/m vibes, tarot
Minimum Knowledge Level: none
Schedule:
12-15.30 Guided Touch Meditation, creative sound scapes, vocalisations and creature discovery
15.30-17 Shared lunch (included in ticket)
17-21 Cosy cave time – Time to retreat, be easeful and hibernate
Safety Concept & Regulation
Please consult our safety concept and regulations for this event here.
Accessibility Note
The queer fall rituals are held in spoken English. German can also be provided. The space, KARA, is on the ground floor but has three steps to enter the house. A ramp for wheelchairs is available at all times. There is also a parking space available right in front of the door if needed. KARA has an accessible bathroom available. There are no thresholds in the entire house. The garden is only partially accessible at the moment. During the workshop, we will sit on the floor. Sitting in a chair can also be provided. Adaptations for physical needs will be shown and can also be provided upon request. If you participate in this workshop and need more assistance please message us at info@karada-house.de beforehand.
Food and accommodation
Accommodation can be provided in the house for 10 Euros/per person and night. Please email us to book accommodation. We have mattresses, all bed linens and duvets, pillows etc. There is a fully functioning kitchen and also a shower. Lunch is included in the price. The lunch will have vegan options available. If you have specific dietary needs or allergies, please message us and let us know immediately.
Who is this event for?
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
What else to know
Before purchasing a solidarity ticket, please check here if you are eligible for one.
Facilitator


Renée de Sans (she/her)

Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Caritia (no pronouns)
More Information
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
- Ground floor location with 3 steps at the entrance – a wheelchair ramp is always available
- A bell on ground level for people who need support with the stairs is available
- Accessible bathroom and no thresholds throughout the space
- Parking directly in front (please message if you want to use the spot)
- Chair seating, cushions, mats, couches available
- Fidget toys, visual clocks, quiet areas to retreat to available
- Psychological first aid tools available
- Workshop is held in spoken English, German available upon request
- Karada House is a sober space
- Please do not wear perfume
- Need more support? Message us at info@karada-house.de
- Please do not attend if you are feeling sick.
- The indoor areas will be constantly aired and two HEPA-14 filters will be running the entire time. We also have outdoor areas that are open during warmer days when it is not raining.
- We provide hand and surface disinfectant, please make ample use of it.
- All appliances, surfaces, blankets, etc. will be disinfected on a regular basis and before and after every class. Blankets, towels, etc. will be washed after every use.
- For workshops that require a partner, we encourage you to bring a person from your household, safe(r) Covid-19-bubble, etc. Working with someone you do not know is possible but at your own risk.
- We reserve the right to carry out mandatory Covid tests for large events. In case of testing positive you cannot enter the event and we need to ask you to leave for the sake of safety for the other participants.




