
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Styles of Leadership is about discovering and exploring how you want to dominate and/or lead in a play or erotic context. Together, we’ll identify personal areas of interest and uncover the joy within different leadership styles. Do you already have the skills, or do they need to be developed? How can you acquire them? Let’s...
Archetypes and Inspiration is designed to bring more depth and nuance to your “Style of Leadership”, helping you gain clarity on the path(s) you want to explore. This session will guide you in shaping characters and expressions of your dominant self, allowing you to refine and embody your unique leadership style. Caritia will guide participants...
Create gorgeous chest harnesses that leave the arms free. Learn a diamond (hishi) pattern, adjust it for different body shapes, and practice both self-tying and partner tying. A great way to create restriction with a safety exit, or move towards self suspension. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We...
BIPOC Shibari Weekend
For three days, BIPOC folks are invited to gather for a BIPOC-led shibari weekend rooted in learning, connection, and shared practice. This gathering is intentionally created as a space for BIPOC participants to explore rope in community—with care, curiosity, and respect for the many ways we come to this practice. Across the weekend, we will...
Rope in the Air: Side Suspension
Explore your first full suspensions — side-on! We will use your choice of upper body harness with a basket tie to practice partial and full side suspensions. We will play with body angles and load distribution to understand our harnesses and partners better. The suspensions are done starting from the ground. We’re exploring low suspensions...
Rope Structures: Hip Harnesses
Support starts at the center. Learn practical and beautiful hip harnesses including Ceci’s simple hip harness and the iconic, minimalistic Naka panties. Tie yourself or with others in this class offering adaptations for different body shapes and identities. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We explore specific harness types,...
Queer Kink Camp
This three-day, boot camp style immersive weekend supports you at the beginning of your kink journey. Part playshop, part skills education, and part experiencing, the Queer Kink Camp blends learning with doing. You will be supported by Caritia and Ceci through guided workshops, hands-on practice, and facilitated play spaces. All activities are grounded in consent,...
Add some spice (and a chair)! Learn to tie body parts together and to furniture using simple column ties and frictions. Includes classic positions like gyaku ebi (hogtie), kata-ashi (one leg up), and ebi (folded forward). Perfect for both play sessions and structural understanding. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive...









