
Caritia

Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Sensation play comes in many forms, and wax play explores the edge between warmth, intensity, and pleasure. Because it involves heat and skin contact, wax play requires thoughtful preparation, clear boundaries, and informed technique. In this workshop, Caritia guides participants through the layered and adaptable practice of wax play. Together, we will explore different types...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Kink as Vessel for Grief
So little space is gifted to sadness and grief; frequently, these emotions are bypassed and sidelined. Caritia believes honouring, acknowledging, and releasing grief can be liberating for all aspects of your body and life. How can the practices of kink intentionally support opening up of self? Supported by the ritual container of collective gathering. Caritia...
We will continue to discuss Arron Trammell's paper and now book 'Play, Trauma and the Black Experience', as it holds many nuances. This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and...
Map of Me is a journey of identity and self-discovery, approached through a intersectional, nuanced and informed critique-based lens. Together, we will explore the different parts of ourselves that seek expression and uncover what might be holding them back or motivating them to come forward. Caritia will guide participants through discussion, exercises and prompts for...
Delving Into Dominance – Series
Delving into Dominance aims to offer a view into the aspects of power and empowerment, from a decolonial perspective and framework. Allowing for intentional creation/co-creation of spaces that place pleasure, curiosity and intention at the forefront of your personal desires. In this 4-part online series, Caritia will guide participants through the various aspects of dominance...
At Close Range – Intimacy workshop
The face is intimate. Expressive. Close.It holds breath, emotion, and attention—and sometimes, exactly the kind of closeness you want to linger in. At Close Range is a 3-hour kink workshop devoted to the subtle and powerful edges of facial and mouth play. This playful, consent-forward lab invites pairs to explore closeness, control, and psychological intensity...
These Boots are made for Walkin’
Trampling is an underrated art form. Slow. Grounded. Powerful.Whether it’s boots, socks, stockings, or bare feet, there’s something deeply satisfying about being stepped on—or doing the stepping. These Boots Are Made for Walkin’ is a playful, consent-forward workshop exploring the fine art of trampling, with and without shoes. This session invites curiosity, confidence, and intentionality...
In boundaries and negotiation, we will break down the key elements and practical steps for creating and maintaining a shared space where you and your partner(s) can explore together while holding each other accountable. Care, health, safety, and communication styles are essential pieces of the play puzzle. Whilst then co-creating protocols that support each person’s...
Release and Relax – Sound Experience
Let's create an intentionally restful space together. Caritia invites participants to spend two and a half hours in gentle sound relaxation. Together, we will set personal intentions for release and opening and then settle in for a mix of gongs, singing bowls and chimes to allow the sound resonances to soothe our body and mind....
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...













