Caritia
Caritia is a Berlin-based kink activist, shibari educator, and co-founder of Karada House and OhYesPlease.org. Caritia’s fascination with the root/the body stems from a longing to deeply ‘listen’ to the body holistically, from the inside out. Self-identifying and living in a queer, gender non-conforming, BiPoC (afab) body, connecting with the LGBTQIA+ spectrum, as a sex worker and dominant, thriving with dyslexia, whose art, education and consulting pursuits stem from a desire to advocate and support others to explore intentionally and intersectionally the boundaries around their bodies, sexuality and self-expression, using the key practices and language of kink alongside the 20+ years of lived personal & professional experiences. Caritia is a forever student of nuanced layers of being human.
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Release and Relax – Sound Experience
Let's create an intentionally restful space together. Caritia invites participants to spend two and a half hours in gentle sound relaxation. Together, we will set personal intentions for release and opening and then settle in for a mix of gongs, singing bowls and chimes to allow the sound resonances to soothe our body and mind....
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Styles of Leadership is about discovering and exploring how you want to dominate and/or lead in a play or erotic context. Together, we’ll identify personal areas of interest and uncover the joy within different leadership styles. Do you already have the skills, or do they need to be developed? How can you acquire them? Let’s...
BIPOC Utopias – Power Exchange
This is a separatist space to discuss and lab about kink, intimacy, and virtual play space for black, brown and Indigenous folks. For quite some time, Caritia has been musing on encouraging and inspiring more BIPOC into the realm of alternative lifestyles and ways of relating. There are many systemic barriers to this, including patriarchy,...
Rope for Absolute Beginner
Welcome to the world of Japanese style rope bondage, friend! It's wild and fun out here and we are thrilled to be your point of entry. This weekly class is designed for anyone who would like to learn about Japanese-inspired rope bondage/shibari/kinbaku whether you see yourself in the role of the person tying or being...
Archetypes and Inspiration is designed to bring more depth and nuance to your “Style of Leadership”, helping you gain clarity on the path(s) you want to explore. This session will guide you in shaping characters and expressions of your dominant self, allowing you to refine and embody your unique leadership style. Caritia will guide participants...
We are often taught that anger and fear are emotions to suppress. Too much. Too loud. Too inconvenient. We are encouraged to manage them, soften them, or hide them altogether. At the same time, anger and fear are frequently used as tools of control—shaping behaviour, enforcing obedience, and maintaining hierarchy. What if these emotions are...
Play is not an escape from seriousness — it’s a powerful way of engaging with it. Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, play is where curiosity, communication, and connection come alive. When approached with intention, play becomes more than experimentation — it becomes a tool for resilience, creativity, and deeper relational...
Kink Explained: Power Exchange
This 2-hour in-person workshop offers a foundational overview of power exchange and power dynamics within kink. It is a theoretical, lecture- and conversation-based class focused on concepts, language, and frameworks rather than physical practice. What we’ll cover Basic definitions of power and power exchange in kink Different ways of playing with power from this framing,...
Choking 101
What is choking in a kinky context? Far too often this edge play practice is mistaken for breath play. This workshop is given as a passion pursuit to clarify the myths and support folks with engaging in this edge practice of holds and restriction, with more awareness, care and intention. Caritia (kink coach) and Montserrat...
Create gorgeous chest harnesses that leave the arms free. Learn a diamond (hishi) pattern, adjust it for different body shapes, and practice both self-tying and partner tying. A great way to create restriction with a safety exit, or move towards self suspension. Rope Structures Take your fundamentals and start building stronger, more supportive structures. We...
BIPOC Shibari Weekend
For three days, BIPOC folks are invited to gather for a BIPOC-led shibari weekend rooted in learning, connection, and shared practice. This gathering is intentionally created as a space for BIPOC participants to explore rope in community—with care, curiosity, and respect for the many ways we come to this practice. Across the weekend, we will...













