The Theory of Connecting

14mar19:0021:30The Theory of ConnectingLGBTQIA+ & FRIENDSEvent OverVirtual Event19:00 - 21:30 FacilitatorCeci Ferox (they/them)Categorymeta


(Monday) 19:00 - 21:30





Event Details

Building a connected and impactful BDSM session might sometimes feel like alchemy and mystic telepathic powers. It’s not. It is actually built on very concrete techniques that you can learn, practice, and become good at.

This workshop explores how to create connection and intensity in kink play. Ceci will talk about bodies, connective techniques, and narratives to give you tools to create more satisfying play sessions. The goal is to make connection feel easier and less like telepathy.

Themes can include:
• Body-mind connection: Body positions, relationships between bodies and the influence of bodies on minds
• Deep dive into technical elements of building connection: intention, rhythm, time, and proximity
• Themes, narratives, and roles as ways for all participants to have agency in play

The workshop includes:
• Lecture content
• Writing and conversation-based exercises


Event Details

Date & Time:  March 14th, 2022, 7 pm- 9 pm CET (Berlin time)

Format: discussion (virtual)


Language: English

Knowledge level: – 

What to bring: pen & paper

Class recording: yes, will be available for 14 days to the participants of the conference


What else to know

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Photo: @64shadesofhoernchen


Ceci Ferox (they/them)

Ceci Ferox is a Berlin-based sex therapist, kink activist, and rope teacher originally from Finland. Safer spaces and empowerment through quality education are important for them.

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