February, 2021

28feb13:4515:45Event OverVirtual EventSubayThe Unseen Details: Deconstructing the Gote13:45 - 15:45 CET(GMT+01:00) View in my timeCategory:Day 5,Queerope 2021Format:conference


  • Subay (she/her)

    Subay (she/her)

    Subay is a Shibari artist and founder of Kokoro Studio based in Hong Kong. Subay was first introduced to Shibari eight years ago when she was fascinated by its aesthetics, eroticism and emotions. She spent the first few years exploring and learning the different styles from several well-respected nawashi in Japan. In 2014, she met and was deeply inspired by Yukimura Haruki sensei. Afterwards, she dedicated herself to the study of traditional Japanese style. In 2015, Subay met Naka Akira sensei and chose to focus her study on sensei’s style of semenawa. She continues to explore her own style of semenawa which is both feminine and inclusive. In March 2018, Subay had the honour of performing at Onna Matsuri (おんあ祭り) in Tokyo. In November 2018, she had the privilege to tie at Naka sensei’s satsuei-kai (縄奈加會緊縛撮影会) and in November 2019, she assisted Naka sensei in his workshops in San Francisco. Subay teaches and performs internationally, including Asia, Europe and US. Her teaching focuses on the “why”, the feelings, the emotions, and provides insights on the perspective of both the rope top and the rope bottom.


(Sunday) 13:45 - 15:45 CET(GMT+01:00) View in my time



Event Details


Gote, or ushiro takate kote, is one of the first ties we learn. Yet, it is also the tie that is the most difficult to master.

In this session, Subay will deconstruct the gote and discuss the following:

1. Stemmed gote vs stemless gote

2. Shoulder positioning

3. Wrists and arms positioning

4. Use of kannuki

5. How to know if your gote is suitable for a certain suspension

6. Gote variations for rope bottoms with different flexibility



Format: workshop

Minimum Knowledge Level: intermediate

Prerequisites for rope top:

1. Single column tie

2. Some knowledge and experience about gote in any style

Prerequisites for rope bottom:

1. Understanding of basic rope safety, in particular regarding nerve damage

What to Bring: ropes, suspension point & partner if you wish to tie along

Solo or Partnered: both, partnered if you want to tie along

Class recording: no



photo credit: Touchwood

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