October, 2021

09oct11:0018:00In-House EventFeaturedShameLGBTQIA+ & WOMÊN11:00 - 18:00 Facilitator: Emma Steel Category:kinkFormat:workshop


Emma SteelEmma Steel is interested in communication experiments that break conventions, in humour and in how we can become closer to our own inner biests while remaining professional or true to who you want to be. In her workshops she finds it important for everyone to make mistakes and ask stupid questions, thereby making communal learning possible.


(Saturday) 11:00 - 18:00

Event Details

Everyone knows shame, even little children.
Shame is, much like anger, an emotional state that most of us try to avoid at all costs.
Some of us love it in play – and use shame and embarrassment consciously for erotic stimulation and role play.

It can be both very uncomfortable and very lusty – but it is always obviously palpable. Shame is sumptuous.
It protects our innermost core, our dignity, and our integrity.

To celebrate shame, to bathe in it, can be highly erotic. And, it can be very satisfying to do this to someone who craves it and truly lose yourself in the pleasure of it all.

In order to create a trusting atmosphere where tops, bottoms, and switches can have an exchange on their own terms there is often the possibility to divide up into smaller groups. Sensitivity around all kinds of differences and positionings on all levels is expected of participants.


Event Details

Date & Time:  October  9th, 2021, 11am-6pm

Format: workshop

Audience:  LGBTQIA+ & Womên

Language: English

Minimum Knowledge Level: N/a

What to Bring: yourself, curiosity, comfortable clothes, snack food, blanket

Solo or Partnered:  both work (everybody needs to buy a ticket)


What we will teach/offer you

– we will examine our own experiences with shame and embarrassment through conversations and body and breath exercises.

– we focus on negotiation, safety, and aftercare.

– we will experiment with shaming others and allowing ourselves to be shamed

– we will indulge in play and exercises dealing with humiliation

– we will look at the intention of humiliation

– there will be time and space for various scenarios and role-play options that will be suggested and discussed, and if desired, can be tried in short play scenarios. Whoever does not wish to participate, may use this time instead for planning fun humiliation scenarios.

– feedback and close


Safety Concept

You need to bring proof of testing (not older than 24 hours), or proof of vaccination in order to be let inside.

Hand disinfectant provided in multiple places. All surfaces are disinfected and will be disinfected in between use.

Space is limited to give more space for everyone.

We frequently air the space and also use fans for more circulation.

You must wear a mask at all times.


Who is this event for?

LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.

Womên describes people who are identifying themselves as female in their gender identity. People that fit this category can be part of the LGBTQIA+ spectrum or not. We created this category specifically to indicate that we also invite cisgender, heterosexual womên.

The word is our own creation and serves as a replacement for the word “womxn” which is now being (ab)used for transmisogynist statements. The ^ in womên represents a marker (similar to the “x” in womxn) that wishes to give emphasis to the fact that womênhood is an intersectional umbrella term that holds many different people and experiences and is not biologically predetermined.




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Price 60,00 €

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Health Guidelines for this Event

Masks Required
Physical Distance Maintained
Event Area Sanitized

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