
Quick Info
- When:
- 7. July 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CEST
- Where:
- online
- Format:
- class
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+ & Friends
- Constellation:
- solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
- Language:
- English
- What to know:
- Be prepared to have conversations and share in the class (in chat or on microphone)
- What to bring:
- Paper & pen
- Recording:
- Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
Things will go wrong in kink. Miscommunication, emotional overwhelm, consent slips, physical mishaps, or simply mismatched expectations — ruptures are a real risk in when working with intensity, vulnerability, and power exchange.
This workshop focuses on what happens after the moment shit hits the fan.
We’ll explore how to recognize rupture as it’s happening, how to pause without escalating harm, and how to repair connection in ways that build trust rather than erode it. Drawing on principles from restorative and transformative justice, we’ll look beyond blame and punishment toward accountability, repair, and the possibility of doing things differently.
What does it mean to take responsibility in a kink context? How do we respond to harm without collapsing into defensiveness or exile? And how can repair processes strengthen our dynamics and communities?
Expect discussion, guided reflection, and practical frameworks you can apply in scenes, relationships, and shared spaces. This is not about avoiding mistakes, it’s about learning how to respond to them with care, clarity, and integrity.
What to expect
- Frameworks for recognizing different types of rupture (communication breakdowns, consent issues, emotional harm)
- Tools for pausing, de-escalating, and responding in the moment without making things worse
- Approaches to accountability and repair
- Exploration of common defensive patterns (avoidance, blame, shutdown) and how to move through them
- Ways to rebuild trust after things go wrong
Who should join
- People practicing kink who want to handle mistakes and missteps more skillfully
- Tops, bottoms, and switches interested in building safer, more resilient dynamics
- Anyone who has experienced or caused a rupture and wants better tools for repair
- Community organizers, hosts, teachers, or facilitators navigating conflict and harm
- Those open to engaging with accountability, rather than avoiding or outsourcing it
Facilitator
More Information
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
Friends describe people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer space and its marginalized community.
When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone's self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people's chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender-straight privileges.
Friends don't have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all proactively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.
After your successful ticket purchase, you will be sent an email with the Zoom login data for this event. If you do not receive it, message us with your order number so we can send it again. Some email services "disappear" our messages so please check if you received our login data email.
If this session includes a recording you can obtain it by simply purchasing a ticket. You will automatically get access to the live class and the recording as they come in a package. The recording login data will be sent out 24–48h after the live event and will be available for (at least) 14 days after the live event. Please note these classes are places for experience, not for instruction. Nothing here is tested or graded — only perceived, felt, and shared. All offerings are invitations to reflect — no curriculum, no exam, no training. Recordings exist solely to support personal integration and are available only for a limited time.
Yes, because you are paying for the knowledge our facilitators distribute, not for the access to Zoom itself. We kindly ask you to respect that and pay accordingly.
Before purchasing a solidarity ticket, please check here if you are eligible for one.
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
- Virtual: The session will be held on ZOOM
- Live captions are available
- Live translation in multiple languages is available
- Transcripts of the session are available
- The session is moderated and tech support is available
- Communication in the session is via chat and/or direct communication via microphone

