Memi (he/him)
Memi is a bi transmasc switch based in Argentina that works as a teacher and researcher around history of sexuality/ies. His passion is understanding how desire and politics interact.
Quick Info
- When:
- 3. June 2026, 7:00 pm – 10:00 pm CEST
- Where:
- online
- Format:
- workshop
- Who can join:
- LGBTQIA+ & Friends
- Constellation:
- solo, paired, groups - all constellations welcome (everyone needs a ticket)
- Language:
- English
- What to know:
- your own boundaries when it comes to this topic
- What to bring:
- pen & paper, questions and curiosity
- Recording:
- Yes, the session is recorded and will be sent to all ticket holders after the class.
- Questions:
- Message us via info@karada-house.de
- Add to calendar:
- Google Calendar / iCal / .ics file
Tickets
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
In this workshop we will offer guidance, ideas, and tips on how to start playing with shame, humiliation, embarrassment and degradation/objectification. We will cover several kinks through the lens of trauma-informed practices and queer politics, looking into the complexities of the intersection between the sexual politics of shame and pleasure.
We will cover negotiation strategies, self consent, risk management and scene ideas.
What we will teach/do
- What is erotic humiliation
- What is it not
- Politics of shame (intersectionality and care)
- Differences between embarrassment, shame, humiliation, degradation/objectification
- Pre-care and self consent (tips)
- How to negotiate from a top and bottom perspective
- Demo of a negotiation
- Subtypes of kinks: bimboification, sissification, forced petplay/ageplay, dumbification, dollification, playing with bodily fluids, verbal humiliation, nakedness, and a couple more
- How to dirty talk for humiliation
- Demo and reflection
Facilitator
Mel (he/him)
I’m a transmasculine GNC boi from Buenos Aires, Argentina, I work as a sex and bdsm educator, I’m the co-funder of a collective (Kinky Vibe Argentina) that hosts queer and kinky events, owns a digital Sex Shop and independent press oriented to LGTBIQANB+ people. I’m also a sex worker (pro domme), performer and shibari enthusiast that has been bottoming rope for almost 10 years.
More Information
LGBTQIA+ describes the full spectrum of non-mainstream sexual orientation and/or gender identity, meaning: lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer/fluid, queer, intersex, asexual, aromantic, agender.
Friends describe people of any and all kinds of gender and sexual identities who are aware and respectful of the necessity, needs, and boundaries of a queer space and its marginalized community.
When you consider yourself a friend you show acknowledgement to and are respectful of everyone's self-expression and do not assume, presume or project non-consensual ideas onto others. You actively request and use people's chosen pronouns. You remain mindful of the fact that Karada House is first and foremost a space for queer people that you are also invited to attend. You have a genuine concern for the well-being of LGBTQIA+ people and remain in awareness of heterosexual and gender-straight privileges.
Friends don't have to be perfect. None of us are. We request that we all proactively work and strive to be good friends and allies to marginalized people.
After your successful ticket purchase, you will be sent an email with the Zoom login data for this event. If you do not receive it, message us with your order number so we can send it again. Some email services "disappear" our messages so please check if you received our login data email.
If this session includes a recording you can obtain it by simply purchasing a ticket. You will automatically get access to the live class and the recording as they come in a package. The recording login data will be sent out 24–48h after the live event and will be available for (at least) 14 days after the live event. Please note these classes are places for experience, not for instruction. Nothing here is tested or graded — only perceived, felt, and shared. All offerings are invitations to reflect — no curriculum, no exam, no training. Recordings exist solely to support personal integration and are available only for a limited time.
Yes, because you are paying for the knowledge our facilitators distribute, not for the access to Zoom itself. We kindly ask you to respect that and pay accordingly.
Before purchasing a solidarity ticket, please check here if you are eligible for one.
If you cannot afford this event, please check the ticket option "solidarity" for reduced ticket prices. If that is still too much or they are out of stock, feel free to send us a message via info@karada-house.de.
- Virtual: The session will be held on ZOOM
- Live captions are available
- Live translation in multiple languages is available
- Transcripts of the session are available
- The session is moderated and tech support is available
- Communication in the session is via chat and/or direct communication via microphone
