Practical Reflections on Intentional Kink Space Facilitation

As Kink Space Facilitators, we experience a wide range of impressions in our work. We plan juicy offers, trauma and queer inclusive, and hold space for experiences, uncertainties, fuck ups, desires and much more. After planning and implementation comes reflection and evaluation. The ‘how was I’ as a professional and personally.

Alexander Hahne, gay trans man, trainer and speaker for trans-specific topics in the field of sexual health, sex educator, somatic counselor, sexuality focussed bodyworker, systemic sex therapist, dancer and pleasure activist. Leader of workshops and individual counseling on the topics of body awareness, intimacy and sexuality. He works in the field of sexuality for about 20 years with almost 15 years of facilitation in pleasure and kink spaces. With his work he directly support them in their own experience of the body as well as the possibility of uncovering and using access to their own pleasurable potential.

What happens in the workshop?

In this workshop, we will first put on our oxygen masks and subject our work to a reality check to see how it actually was.

For example, we will address the following questions:

• Which methods worked really well and why?
• Did the planning of your trauma-informed process have the desired effect during implementation?
• Were there situations in which you felt uncertain or overwhelmed? What did you do then? What could be different next time?
• Which methods did you use and why? What worked, what didn’t and why?

Yes, there is always too little time and the physical space is different than expected… how do you deal with that? How does that affect your stress level and facilitation?

The approach is to separate your behaviour from you as a person. You as a person are highly valued and your behaviour is criticised.

Note

This offering connects to and extends Ceci Ferox’s workshops Intentional Kink Space Facilitation and Intentional Kink Spaces: Structures and Organizing. You can purchase the recordings in our shop. If you did not have the opportunity to be part of these classes, we are offering the recordings for you to purchase as well. The recordings will be available until April 9th, 2026. This is optional, not mandatory. If you were part of one or both of these workshops, you can email us and get free access to the recordings again, if you purchase a ticket to this class.